Feb 13th-17th: The Return of the Prodigal Son - Introductions
Reading: The Story of Two Sons and Their Father, the Prologue and the Introduction
A very warm welcome to everyone. Today we gather together, in this online community, to begin a Lenten journey. Our intention is to encourage one another as we think on Christ, and seek to live our lives for Him. This is my prayer for this discussion; that we would:
* grow in our love for Jesus
* be strengthened in our understanding of the Word of God
* receive strength and endurance for our pursuit of God
* be fruitful in our influence for Jesus
Each one of you is a very important part of this journey, and I know God will work both in you and through you.
We are blessed to be able to study Henri's journey, as he grew in his understand of the parable, The Return of the Prodigal Son, through Rembrandt's exquisite visual representation. As many have already commented, there is much wisdom and insight to be gleaned from this book. I'm pretty excited about the discussion that is ahead!
First, let me offer a brief introduction for those who are participating for the first time. The "home page" for this discussion is http://wp.henrinouwen.org/rgroup_blog/. Return to this page often, to make sure you are up to date. Each week I will make a new "post" identified by a bold black title on the home page. Underneath the post you can click on "comments" to read comments, and of course add your own. Always add your comments to the newest post, even if you are referring to a previous post, so that everyone sees what you have shared. If you add a comment to an old post, very few people will see it. Myself and Maureen have to "moderate" comments before they are actually posted on the website. This means you can communicate with us if you have any questions.
Well, lets begin! These first few days are mostly about introductions, and preparing ourselves for the study.
1) Please share with us a little bit about yourself. You might include:
a) your general geographic location
b) to whom or what you dedicate your time
c) how you came to know Henri Nouwen, and if you've participated in one of these discussions before
2) What is your previous experience with Rembrandt?
a) If you know very little about Rembrandt and his paintings, that is totally okay!
b) If you can share any general knowledge or insight into Rembrandt, that would be most welcome
c) Have you ever seen Rembrandt's works? What stood out to you?
3) Please share with us any thoughts that came up for you as you read this week's readings, The Story of Two Sons and Their Father, the Prologue and the Introduction.
a) Did you notice anything new as you read The Story of Two Sons and Their Father?
b) Did anything about the journey Henri describes particularly stand out to you?
In gratitude to each of you,
Brynn
February 13th, 2013 at 6:40 am
My name is Carl. I am not Catholic, but have a very close Catholic friend and we share a lot of dialogue. I am protestant but really feel Henri Nouwen speaks to my heart. To me, he has such a great understanding of humanity and God. I am also a prodigal. I have wandered away from the Father but feel I am returning home. I have ordered the book. It has not arrived, but hopefully will today. I am looking forward to this discussion and reading the book “together.” Thanks.
February 13th, 2013 at 6:51 am
This book was given to me by a friend from Germany last fall, who I got to know during an exchange program with the YMCA. I’ve read several of Henri Nouwen’s books and loved them all, including this one. I will re-read during Lent.
I live in Virginia. Though I have not been drawn to art in my earlier years, stories like this one make me want to know more, see more and experience more what art can mean to my life.
Participating in an online book discussion is new for me and I look forward to learning more from you.
February 13th, 2013 at 9:32 am
I live in Plano, Tx. I have two grown sons and 4 additional grown step children. I spend my time working, keeping an active lifestyle and deepening my understanding of my spirituality. I came to know Henri Nouwen through a small group faith sharing. I have not really seen works of Rembrandt outside of the front of the book The Prodigal Son.
In reading the prodigal son my eyes were opened to the fact that we can and should identify with each character. There was so much beauty and wonder when Henri moved to identifying with the father of the two sons.
February 13th, 2013 at 10:35 am
I live in Clovis, Ca I have been married for 29 years and have 3 adult children and my wife and I are expecting our first grandchild in June….it’s a girl. I first read Return of the Prodigal Son in 2009. It was a bright light in a very dark soul back then. I had never seen this work of art before reading the book. I now have a beautiful reproduction my wife bought me that hangs in my office next to my desk for contemplation. In 2008 I visited St. Petersburg but the Hermitage was closed. After I read the book for the first time I was so bummed to have not experienced the Return of the Prodigal….I hope to return some day to experience this in person. I look forward to re-reading the book and gaining new spiritual insights.
February 13th, 2013 at 10:58 am
Hello! My name Susan, and I live near Boston, Massachusetts. I work as an editorial assistant and am also a part time student, working on my BA in Theology. I also work for a Marian ecumenical society, mainly in publishing their quarterly newsletter. I first encountered Henri Nouwen’s writing back in the 1980s when a religious sister recommended I read “The Genesee Diary.” I didn’t actually read the book until about 2 years ago, after I’d read, “Life of the Beloved” which I feel changed my life. Nouwen’s deep insights into the human person and of the spiritual life affected me deeply. I actually cried when reading some passages, but they were really joyful tears - because I felt that I was understanding myself and my relationship with God so much more clearly.
I remember as a child when I first felt like I understood the parable of the prodigal son on a spiritual level. I was so excited that I had gained a real spiritual insight. As I’ve begun reading Nouwen’s book, I realize there are so many more levels and aspects to this parable.
I’m very excited about being a part of this discussion group. I’ve never done this before, but am eager to try. Thank you.
February 13th, 2013 at 12:16 pm
Hello, I’m Elisa and I am from Michigan. This will be the 3rd time I’ve participated in the Lenten on-line book discussion. This is the first Henri Nouwen book I had read in over 20 years and it struck many chords within me. After this book, I started researching Henri and reading more of his books, and then was blessed to find henrinouwen.org website. When I had finished the book, I started to see the portrait in many new and different ways . . . it became a visual story with much more depth after Henri’s various observations about it. The cover on the book does not do the painting justice and so wished I could see the original. So when Rembrandt’s Faces of Jesus came to the DIA (Detroit Institute of Arts), I knew I had to go and see it . . . and it did not disappoint. There was so much explanation of the time, culture, and the people in Amsterdam to help put everything into perspective. You could see Rembrandt’s growth in his art as they often put side by side “before” and “after” pictures. Rembrandt’s earlier pictures depicted Biblical scenes in very dramatic and physical poses to tell the story, though it seemed forced. Later something must have changed and he developed a nuance in his art that conveyed that and more. It was like the painting was truly speaking to you. Also, Rembrandt is known as being one of the first to paint Jesus based on a Jewish model. The one painting that spoke to me like The Return of the Prodigal Son spoke to Henri is Christ with Folded Arms. Henri gave me some tools to look at this painting and read into the depth of the painting and not just see the surface picture, quickly glanced at, judged and forgotten. May you all draw closer to Christ in this Lenten Season.
If you are interested in more about the Faces of Jesus, here are a few links:
DIA link:
http://www.dia.org/calendar/exhibition.aspx?id=2306&iid=
Philadelphia Museum of Art link:
http://www.dia.org/calendar/exhibition.aspx?id=2306&iid=
From: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/20/rembrandt-face-of-jesus-dia-opening_n_1102813.html
In Rembrandt’s earlier paintings, he depicted a stylized, heroic Jesus, based on the Greek ideal, often in dramatic scenes.By the 1640s, Rembrandt’s portrayal of Jesus had became more personal, more meditative and more apparently Jewish.
“One of the most compelling things to them was that Rembrandt was situated in a particular place, a unique time and place in history,” Anila said. “Amsterdam was growing to this tremendous international city, and there was a particular freedom of religion there that allowed for someone like Rembrandt to look at new approaches to his subject matter.”
She added, “The idea that there were people from different backgrounds and faiths bumping into each other was something that people found resonance with.”
Christ with Arms Folded http://rembrandt.louvre.fr/en/html/r24.html
February 13th, 2013 at 12:51 pm
Bread For The Journey has been a comfort to me for the past two years since my husband died. I purchased the book,The Return of the Prodigal Son; a Story of Homecoming and read it years ago. I’m looking forward to reading it again and gaining more insight. Thank you for the lenten message.
February 13th, 2013 at 1:07 pm
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Mark Parsons Says:
February 13th, 2013 at 5:53 am e
I first came to know Henri’s works more than 15 years ago. The clarity and depth of his writing spoke to me in a visceral way. As I grew ‘to know’ him and then read “Wounded Prophet” I came to understand why I felt such a kinship to him. Oh, how I wish I could have known him. Yet, through his writings I do feel I have come to embrace both the man he was, the man he wanted to be and that is a blessing.
I have read Return of the Prodigal many times and have shared it with so many people. I have a beautiful print of Rembrandt’s work hanging over my bed…as a daily reminder of my place as a beloved child of God.
I live in West Virginia, USA. I saw my first Rembrandt in an art gallery at a college in South Carolina as a child. It was a portrait and I recall the eyes of the man. They seemed so real and so intense. I have been blessed to stand before The Nightwatch at the Rijks Museum in Amsterdam…to marvel at both the scale and intensity of the work. I think, for me, it is the layers of detail that capture my imagination. Always, there is the focal point of light that is intense and engaging but looking closer there are always seemingly unfinished or less noticeable figures and images in the background. It is as if we are invited to look more closely. I am eager to re-read and to come to a new and better understanding of Henri’s work through the eyes of others.
February 13th, 2013 at 1:07 pm
1a,b: Hi, i’m from Romania and i came to know Henri Nouwen’s writings almost 3 years ago through one of my professors from the MA Religious Studies (University of Bucharest). I’m Protestant, but i’m open to any other faith confessions and i have few friends that are Catholics. I was very touched by The return of the prodigal son. It was the first book of Henri Nouwen that i’ve read. I have read since then another 4 books written by him and the excellent biography of Michael Ford, The Wounded Prophet: A portrait of Henri Nouwen. I’m working right now also on an translation of Bread for the Journey, in romanian, that will be published. I intent in the future to translate more books of him.
1 c: No, i never participated on your online discussions before. This is the first time.
2 c: Yes, i’ve seen some of the Rembrandt’s works at The National Museum of Art of Romania, from Bucharest. I was moved especially by the beauty of the painting Haman Begging the Mercy of Esther.
Best wishes,
February 13th, 2013 at 1:34 pm
Hi, I am a cradle catholic who has strayed into Zen Meditation but still wants sacramental theology. The UU’s sponsor the meditation work- lovely people but they are not a sacramental religion. I am the mother of two sets of twins and a singleton with my son caring a dx of an Autistic Spectrum disorders. I have a MSW,MFA and worked in the urban areas of my city for over twenty years. I write published poetry and drama.
I grew up knowing Henri through my mother who read him especially “The Wounder Healer.” My closet in age cousin has Down Syndrome and is suffering with all the added disabilities that come with it. I hurt for her. She and her family went on pilgrimages with Jean Vanier and have been involved in the L’Arche community in the past.
I carry my own issues of a childhood of multiple disabilities small but vast on the continuum and have run into extremely unexpected emotional issues due to my only sister’s and a best friends concurring deaths from breast cancer and my husband’s less than happy recovery( treatment changed him) from stage III Kidney cancer. We have had to deal with multiple other stressors. I have followed Henri’s life course and he is an inspiration.
February 13th, 2013 at 3:28 pm
Hi, I am a Family and Children’s Minister in Lubbock Texas in a small church. I am the mother of 4 adult children and wife of a college professor. I have learned much about grace in the last 4 years.
I grew up in the Netherlands and went to many Dutch museums as a child on school trips. I was not super impressed with artists in general as a young person. Now, I love to see art, study the art and read about the artists’ lives. I love the light in Rembrandt pictures and his fine meticulous skills in painting are amazing. As an adult I seek out art museums on all my vacations and am moved to tears by the great works.
I am still waiting for my book at this time.
This is my 3rd Henri Nouwen reading group.
Sharolyn
February 13th, 2013 at 5:36 pm
I live in Oregon and this will be my first online Lenten study. I find that Henri Nouwen’s writings touch my heart and provide me with the chance to be still and know myself and God. I have viewed Rembrandt’s works but not with any depth.
February 13th, 2013 at 5:37 pm
Hello. My name is Sally-Ann and I live in England, United Kingdom. I have retired from a career in education but seem to work just as much in retirement! I am mother to seven amazing and wonderful young people, not all my biological children.
I encountered Henri in the first few days of bereavement and since then he has been a constant companion and friend. His writings have been significant in the journey through the valley of the shadow and five years on I return to his work time and time again for inspiration and challenge.
I read and re-read the Prodigal last year…and found each time there were more insights and challenges with each reading. So it is with great anticipation that I begin this Lenten course. I do sense that God wants to continue to restore and renew a broken heart in these coming days.
The Advent readings were my first attempt at joining this on-line community..however my good intentions were not borne out other than reading the book, Creative Ministry and the contributions from the people who posted their responses.
February 13th, 2013 at 6:00 pm
Is this where I join and write my personal info?
From the Moderator:
Dear Dawn - Yes - you got it! Go ahead and enter another post to tell us more about yourself.
February 13th, 2013 at 6:25 pm
I have been a serious spiritual quester from about 1975 until the present. I am a retired Canadian, who was born and grew up in the province of Nova Scotia or New Scotland. Many refer to Nova Scotian’s as Blue Nosers. The Blue Nose was a famous fishing and racing boat; its picture graces the back of the Canadian dime. . This Blue Noser admires Jesus as a “fisher of men.” My wife Judy and I live in Nova Scotia eight months of the year and spend the other four months living in Largo Fl as snowbirds.
I have had two spiritual directors, both Sisters of Charity. I completed the “Spiritual Exercises of St Ignatius” with my first director over a one year period. Prayer, meditation and contemplation around the Parable of the Prodigal Son was one of my most graced moments during this period. My favorite saints couples are Teresa of Avila and John of the Cross and Saint Francis of Assisi and Sister Claire, the founder of the poor Claire’s. The past six moths of 2012 were devoted to Sylvia, age 90 and her health issues and transition from her home to a extended care facility. In September 2012, I had a successful medical intervention to repair a 99% blocked artery. These events have resulted in my need to revisit my spiritual journey and to spend renewed quality time with the God of my understanding, the Holy Spirit and a new Spiritual Director (both of my previous directors have died) to clarify how I am being called to serve Him from age 71 until my death.
My Knowledge of Rembrandt is minimal. After reading “The return of the Prodigal Son” a couple of years ago, I simultaneously went on the internet to view the picture and to learn more about Rembrandt, the man. I have read many of Henri’s book since 1980, when I was employed for 5 years in a 30 day Alcohol Rehabilitation Program. I worked in support of of the alcoholic and the members of their families during their recovery period.
My copy of the book in question is in Canada. My responses to this Lenten journey will be based upon comments others make, and what my heart and memories bring to the surface. For example, the meaning of Prodigal refers to the father, the 2 sons and the reader in very different ways. The Prodigal Father, who lavishly gave total unconditional love to both his sons, while the son who embraced wine, women and song; squandered his inheritance…
February 13th, 2013 at 6:39 pm
I have been reading more and more about men’s spirituality which led to spirituality in general. I first read this book last year and decided it would be part of my Lenten walk this year. I’m looking forward to this very much.
February 13th, 2013 at 7:26 pm
I live in Ontario, Canada. Henri Nouwen is my all-time favourite author. I own almost all his books, and he never fails to speak to my heart no matter what it is of his that I read. It’s been years since I’ve read this book, but the theme of home really resonates with me, and I thought it would be a good idea to join this group and re-read. I have no art appreciation at all, and so the picture really does nothing for me. But I do look forward to the reading.
February 13th, 2013 at 7:28 pm
I live in Derbyshire in the UK. I am a musician in my local parish. Headteacher of a Catholic secondary school [age range: 11 - 19]. Have been on the periphery of Henri Nouwen’s work for some time, receiving the daily meditation for a couple of months.
I have never been involved in an online reading group - just hope I can keep up! My book is currently waiting to be picked up at our local post office as our letterbox was too small to get it through. Hoping to get started tomorrow.
We have a great print of Rembrandt’s Prodigal Son in our chapel at school. I intend to spend more time reflecting on it with some greater insight.
February 13th, 2013 at 8:35 pm
I have read Prodigal Son several times and have held a discussion group meeting over several weeks at least twice; have also used the reproduction of the painting as a take off for Visio Divina. IT brings back some memories–good and bad– of my own father. I have seen numerous Rembrandt’s in New York and in the Netherlands. I return to the book often to remind myself that I am loved by God not because of what I do but because God loves me no matter what.
February 13th, 2013 at 9:16 pm
Hello! I live in North Carolina. I work with people who have been convicted of crimes and teach ESL classes. I have been Catholic all my life, although, I have explored other faiths, ranging from Christianity to Buddhism to Tao, Native American spirituality and some Zen. I have limited knowledge of Rembrant. The beauty and detail of his paintings are truly amazing. There is a ethereal feel to his paintings for me. I learned about Henry Nouwen in reading books authored by Richard Rhor. This is my first experience with a Henri Nouwen reading group. Actually, my first reading group.
I received the book today and look forward to getting started on this. I haven’t read the beginning yet, but, will be getting started.
Looking forward to the journey!
Carol
February 13th, 2013 at 11:34 pm
Dona Roush Says:
February 13th, 2013 at 3:11 pm e
I am a relatively new Catholic (3 years at Easter) but long before I converted I found Henri Nouwen and my spiritual life turned upside down (for the good). I look forward to participating and learning with this group. I have seen some Rembrandt paintings (at the Louvre) but I am ashamed to say that art (paintings) have never spoken to me–not like music, and I do not know why. I can recognize shadow and light, darkness and I know I am looking at a master, but… I look forward to this journey into the scripture and art.
Susan McIntosh Says:
February 13th, 2013 at 3:55 pm e
I came across this today when reading my daily Nouwen reflection. I read the Return of the Prodigal Son several years ago when I was struggling to forgive someone and I often go back to it when I need to seek forgiveness. I enjoy the daily reflection and have several of his books in my ’spiritual library’ right next to my computer at home ~ I often pull from my selections and he is always right on. I look forward to this Lenten journey.
susan v. Says:
February 13th, 2013 at 7:28 pm e
I am very grateful that I receive the daily meditations and saw the information about this group and the readings. I have read The Prodigal Son many times as well as so many of Nouwen’s books. I am just finishing the new book ” Genius born of Anguish” . Somehow the journey depicted in this new book so links itself to the words he wrote in the Prodigal Son.
I am from Louisiana and my days are filled as Social Worker in the Field of Child Protection. I am a oblate of St. Joseph’s Abbey - a Benedictine Monastery. I am above all the son, the brother and the father in the parable on my own journey of longing, seeking reconcillation and conversion. Thank you for letting me be a part of this group.
February 13th, 2013 at 11:54 pm
Hi! I’m happy to be joining another Lenten book study. I have attended several on-line discussions before. I live in Alberta, Canada. I work as a Nursing Instructor. I have 2 kids in trade/polytech school, and a 14 year old still in our nest. My parents live nearby and my Dad has Alzhiemer’s disease. He’s still living at home with Mom.
I was relieved when Sharon said, “I have no art appreciation at all.” I do have art appreciation, but I must say, besides the REturn of the Prodigal Son, I can’t always figure out what a painting is about. I still love to visit art galleries and to sew quilts and make crafts, maybe my enjoyment is just a bit more superficial.
The first Nouwen book I read was REaching OUt. We read it in College. It was great but there weren’t enough copies to go around and I still don’t have that book. I read lots of others, Aging, The Wounded Healer was probably my favourite so far. One has to re-read them and can receive blessings over the years when reading them.
Carol, I hope you have a sense of humour because I got a chuckle from your first paragraph. I believe you teach ESL classes and you also work with people convicted of crimes (good on you!) but the sentence you wrote sounds like the people convicted of crimes are the ones teaching ESL. I’m sure some of them could teach ESL and would be good teachers too, just thought it was funny.
I’m looking forward to hearing from all of you. Just a note - could you please write out the Catholic accronyms or explain the Catholic terminology for us Protestants? I really like hearing about your journey, and it will help us understand Nouwen too.
February 14th, 2013 at 12:00 am
Hello there, this is Chuck from Arizona, USA. I am an assistant principal at two elementary schools, am a Catholic, and am active in our local parish, serving as chairman of the religious education board, head of the family ministry, lector, Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion. I also teach classes to adults and children of the parish, and take Holy Communion to the homebound.
This is the third Henri Nouwen book study I am participating in, and am looking forward to it. I have the book, but have yet to get around to reading it. I have read several of Henri Nouwen’s books, but I don’t remember where I first came to know him.
I don’t know that much about Rembrandt, but am aware of some interesting facts about the painting, such as the hands, one male, one female.
In any event, I am looking forward to this book study.
February 14th, 2013 at 12:05 am
I live in South Carolina, and I’m a cradle Catholic. I am retired and widowed, thus I spend time as a board member of a free medical clinic for the uninsured and indigent, also as a member of the social justice ministry of our catholic parish, and a member of a non-profit quilt guild which does many charitable works for the community. I spend a lot of time in spiritual reading, and Henri Nouwen is my absolute favorite (Thomas Merton, many of the saints, and several Jesuits are included in my long list of favorites).
I joined the group last year (Compassion by Nouwen, et al) but did not find time to submit comments, although I read the book more than once, highlighted and underlined it, and go back to it quite often. It was such a profound experience for me. (If any of you here have not read it, I recommend it as your next book, truly.)
I have already read the current selection by Nouwen and I look forward to rereading it with all of you and learning from your comments.
I am a huge fan of Rembrandt, he is my most favorite artist of all time (Michelangelo next). I used to visit the National Gallery of Art in Washington, DC as a teenager (grew up in suburbs) and spent a lot of time in front of the Rembrandts, just studying them, absorbing every possible detail. I know his works so well that I can see just a few lines of a sketch and discern that it is one of his works.
Here is to a beautiful, deeply spiritual Lenten season for all of you,
Maeve
February 14th, 2013 at 12:52 am
Hi everyone. I am currently in Los Angeles, CA, which is my home base, but I normally live and work in South Africa as a missionary. I was first introduced to Henri Nouwen while I was a student in university, through our campus Christian group. The piece I read was a short meditation on moving from solitude to community to ministry.
A few years ago, during a deep season of healing in my life, I read the Return of the Prodigal Son for the first time. The book (and the passage out of which it’s based) had a profound impact in my journey during that time. I didn’t feel compelled to “give up something for Lent” this year, but a friend reminded me that I could receive something into my life rather than give something during this season. When I saw that this book discussion was happening, I thought it would be a good way to observe Lent this year and revisit a significant passage of scripture and book. I haven’t read this week’s readings yet, so I don’t have anything else to comment, but I am looking forward to everyone’s reflections in the weeks to come.
February 14th, 2013 at 1:26 am
I return to Henri Nouwen each Lent to try to enrich and make meaningul my Lenten journey. His writing has facilitated for me a number of truly lived, raw and beautiful Lenten experiences. I am hoping to stay faithful to this online group as I Reread and meditate on the book.
I am a wife and mother of three daughters ages 24,17, and 14. I have been a school counselor in an urban district in Northeast Ohio. This is my 27th yr. in education.
Our middle child has Down syndrome and when she was born I became drawn to Henri Nouwen’s work ( and Jean Vanier and L’Arche) and his writing. I have many of his books and his writing has always touched me in a way that is so deeply human and spiritual. I am looking forward to this group and learning from all those who take part in the discussions. I have never seen the actual work by Rembrandt but hope to
one day.
February 14th, 2013 at 5:10 am
I am a mother of 3 young children, Dutch but currently living in Norway. I have read some of Henri Nouwens’ books and they never fail to impress me. Even as a protestant I feel completely at ease with his viewpoints and spirituality, which are a source of inspiration for me. At the moment I am searching for a ’spiritual home’ in this new country.
I have read The prodigal Son first when I was studying, some 10 years ago, and it made a huge impression. I remember being surprised of recognising aspects of both brothers in myself, and even a little of ‘the father’. Have to get hold of the book again, as I lent it out but forgotten to whom… Looking forward to read it again together with all of you.
Clara
February 14th, 2013 at 5:59 am
I have read many of Henri Nouwen’s books-my two bedside companions are Inner Voice of Love and Reaching Out. A co-worker introduced him to me close to 10 years ago. I often turn to books by him when I need renewal of spirit or if I am going trough a hard time. I am really looking forward to reading Prodigal Son and taking this journey with the group. This book is new to me. I am a school counselor, married and have two adult children.
February 14th, 2013 at 7:58 am
I have finally received the book, and I am ready to carry it with me on my Lenten journey. As many of the participants have said, they are familiar with this parable of Jesus, hearing it through the Gospel or reading this book.
In my faith community in Litchfield, Connecticut, my priest has invited us to be a part of this story. Who do we identify with: the returning son, the Father, the son who stayed home, or the onlookers…?
It is a great experience, and will be enhanced with this book discussion. I am looking forward to sharing the journey with you.
February 14th, 2013 at 8:56 am
Hi! My name is Babs and I live in Knoxville, TN. I recently started the daily meditations and saw the on line book study and thought it would be interesting to participate. Had done a study of the book about a year ago, but missed much of the discussions as I was out of town.
February 14th, 2013 at 9:05 am
First book by Henri I discovered was Our Greatest Gift: A Meditation on Dying and Caring. All I can say was wow. This was about 5 years ago. Since then I have read a few more of Henri’s books and enjoy them all. I receive the daily devotion and many times pass them on to my family.
This year 3 of us in our family are reading The Return of the Prodigal Son together thru Lent. My son and 1 of my son in laws are reading thru the book together.
I am a father of 3 with one grandson. (who lives close !!!)
February 14th, 2013 at 10:29 am
Hi all. My name in Vin. Live in NJ outside of New York City. A number of years ago I read this book. I’m in a different place on my spiritual journey so I’m excited to find out how it will speak to me this time around.
Just read Henri’s line, “. . . God dwells in my innermost being . . .” which spoke to me today. For years I’ve was searching “out there” for the Divine. Coming only now to the understanding that He has always been “in my innermost being.”
February 14th, 2013 at 10:35 am
Hii Everyone,
I’m happy to join the group to deepen this amazing parable in my own life. The lessons are never-ending.
I was privileged to know Henri who lived in my beloved community of L’Arche Daybreak, and I recognize him over and over again in each of the characters of the parable.
I’m currently retired and living in Toronto where I work on Henri’s published and unpublished legacy.
I’m thankful for Brynn. We couldn’t have a better moderator!
February 14th, 2013 at 1:12 pm
LOL!!!!!!
Yes Marianne, you are right on all counts of what you wrote!!—and I DO have a sense of humor! Chuckling right along with you!
Thoroughly enjoying reading about everyone so far!
February 14th, 2013 at 1:52 pm
Greetings. I am joing this my first on line Lenten study from San Diego County. I always enjoy giving more during the 40 days, although this season I am committed to giving up my Facebook account. It no doubt will be a good reminder and bring my thoughts to Jesus. I learned about Henri Nouwen from a link on a local church, The Flood. I am enjoying the daily meditations and share them with dear friends. I have a quick plug for a wonderful book…Joshua, A Modern Day Parable by Joseph F. Girzone. Wonderful Wonderful Wonderful.
Blessings to each of you and yours.
February 14th, 2013 at 4:20 pm
Hi everyone! I live in Lexington, KY, with my husband and our boxer (dog), Zoe. We have three children who have grown up, married, and blessed us with six beautiful grandchildren! I am a Vocational Deacon in the Anglican Church in North America, and serve a small parish, St. Patrick’s, in Lexington. I have two other part-time roles: an office manager for a psychologist, and a consultant to churches looking to develop their volunteer ministry.
I first stumbled upon Henri Nouwen’s writing when on a retreat several years ago. A copy of “Life of the Beloved” was on the bedside table. Though I had brought my own study material, I spent the retreat devouring Nouwen’s book instead! I’ve read many of his books, been blessed by his transparency and vulnerability expressed so beautifully in his writing. He helps me draw closer to God.
I have no experience with Rembrandt, on the other hand! I am more drawn to textiles than to paintings, so I look forward to learning more about this art master.
Two things stand out to me from this week’s reading:
I had never before noticed that the father allowed the younger son to give his little “speech.” In his joy at having his son back, he could have easily have brushed this aside, but he did not. There is something in that for me…perhaps the realization that it is quite important for the prodigal to have the time/space to confess in order that he might be fully reconciled?
And secondly, it seems to me that the homecoming is not just a once-and-done moment in time (thought it is, in one sense), but that life is made up of several homecomings. Again and again I return for the Father’s loving embrace.
I look forward to sharing this Lenten journey with you!
February 14th, 2013 at 10:26 pm
Happy Valentine’s Day to all. (A great day to recall that Henri Nouwen so often emphasized that we are all “Beloved.”)
I’m Ray from Columbia, Maryland (between Baltimore and Washington) and I have participated in these Lenten and Advent discussions for several years.
I became aware of Henri Nouwen through a priest friend in the early-1980s, however, I read very few of his books until I read Return of the Prodigal Son in June 2004 at a difficult and dark time in my life. I was on a business trip in Singapore and upon leaving Sunday Mass at the Cathedral of the Good Shepard there were religious articles for sale in the courtyard, including this book. I read and reread it throughout the remainder of the week in Asia and on the return flight. I firmly believe that finding Return of the Prodigal Son in that place and at that time of my life was a gift from the Holy Spirit.
Since then I have read many of his other book other books and through his writing Henri Nouwen has become an important companion on my life journey—as anyone that knows me well will attest.
I’m looking forward to sharing Lent with each of you.
Peace and all good,
Ray
February 14th, 2013 at 10:28 pm
My fist daily devotional by Henri Nouwen was a Christmas gift from a dear friend way back in 1990. The depths of Nouwen’s insights spoke to me and I have since then read his meditations and, lately, even subscribe to one. I am a Filipina presently lecturing at a state university in Kuala Lumpur Malaysia. Looking forward to this spiritual journey with you.
February 14th, 2013 at 10:42 pm
Hi. My name is Ann and I live in Atlanta Ga. I was first introduced to Henri Nouwen in his book Life of the Beloved. I as searching for a Lenten reflection form your website and noticed the book discussion so I quickly ordered the book and have just received it and now jumped in to my first online book discussion.
I am married with three grown children and my husband and I have now intensified our search in our spiritual journey. I am somewhat familiar wi Rembrandts work but only at an elementary level.
A new thing to me in the story of The Prodigal Son was the comment from the servant “the father killed the fatted calf because the son came back safe and sound”. I chuckled as this must have been such an understatement! How much more was unfolding…just as it seems was occurring to Henri during his journey. The layers were being revealed and I look forward to the future revelations. Thank you for the study.
February 15th, 2013 at 9:50 am
Hi, my name is Judy and I am a second career seminary student. I have read several of Henri Nouwen’s books; most recently The Wounded Healer as I was preparing to work as an intern chaplain. I have read The Prodigal Son more than once and glean new insights with each reading. Though I know little about paintings or about Rembrandt, I do look forward to that part of the discussion as well as peeling back the layers of the scripture.
February 15th, 2013 at 10:32 am
Hi, my name is Toni and I live in central Illinois USA. I am retired and now do spiritual direction, prison ministry, and I’m active in my Catholic church. I look forward to this reading and sharing as an aid to my Lenten “rejuvenation”.
I have not read the prodigal book but know the story well. I have greatly profited from 2 years of reading the Nouwen daily reflections and know this experience of Nouwen’s insight, sharing of the group on this blog, and the Holy Spirit will be transforming.
I was fortunate to see Rembrandt’s self portrait in a castle in the UK many years ago. I am excited to investigate R’s history and spirituality.
My two insights from the reading were: a comment by Nouwen when looking at the Prodigal painting that he felt it was a window into his life/soul; and the idea that the characters in the book are like us in various times of our life. Like one of you said - it’s not once and you’re done.
Thanks
February 15th, 2013 at 12:30 pm
Hi. My name is Michelle. I live in the Cleveland, Ohio area. I am married and have two children; one in college, living at home, and an 8 year old that I homeschool.
I have had this book on my shelf for many years - given to me by my mother. She passed away 3 years ago and I feel a strong call to read and reflect on this parable of the prodigal son this lent.
What struck me most was the statement by Henri’s friend Sue, “Whether you are the younger son or the elder son, you have to realize that you are called to be the father.” I spend a lot of time identifying with the sons, usually the elder one, while at the same time knowing we are called to move closer and closer to being the father and feeling frustrated at my lack of movement. To me this is the essence of my faith - the human struggle to connect with and reflect the divine.
February 15th, 2013 at 4:20 pm
It is so wonderful to read everyone’s introduction. It is very nice to see some familiar names, and equally nice to see some welcome newcomers.
Your dedication to seek Christ throughout Lent is what makes these discussions so rich and inspiring!
I have been deeply blessed to “get to know” Henri Nouwen over the last few years through my work on the Nouwen Archive Letter Project (http://stmikes.utoronto.ca/kelly/nouwen/nouwenletters.asp). During the same period of time Maureen (of the Henri Nouwen Society) has offered me the honour of facilitating these online discussions. It is an incredibly rich experience to study Henri’s writing, and even more so to read each of your thoughts and reflections!
In the Fall of 2011 I had the opportunity to spend a few days in Amsterdam, and naturally went to the Rijks museum. I was truly stunned by Rembrandt’s work. The depth, the quality, the use of light, the way the characters come to life. I have no doubt the original “The Return of the Prodigal Son” would be quite moving.
As I read through the Intro and Prologue I was reminded of just how deeply this parable spoke to, and eventually through, Henri. I have great anticipation for the fruit that will flow from this study.
Finally, let me add that if anyone is still unsure about how to navigate this blog, please send in a comment and I can respond via email. Please don’t let the technology get in the way of your participation. With a few simple directions anyone can use it!
Brynn
February 15th, 2013 at 8:20 pm
Hello-
My name is Linda. I live outside of Baltimore, MD.
I have no art history courses in my background and next to no art museum visits.
But I prepared for a retreat 7-8 years ago with the reading and sharing of “The Return of the Prodigal Son.” It was such a joy and a blessing to see a bit of what this book would bring to my spiritual journey at that time, and I am so pleased and excited to be re-reading it this year!
February 16th, 2013 at 6:12 am
For the art lovers among us….you might find this article of interest.
http://www.artandantiquesmag.com/2012/06/rembrandt-in-america/
February 16th, 2013 at 6:42 am
My name is Carl S. I live in Scranton, PA. Several years ago in Sunday school we read this book. Everyone loved it and we still talk about how it was the best Sunday school read ever. I first read Henri The Way of the Heart for Laity Academy15 years ago. In a previous church, the entire church read Out of Solitude for a Lenten study. I’m pleased to be re-reading Prodigal again and hope to gain new insights. I love Henri Nouwen’s writing. They are clear, easy to read and understand and straight from and to the heart.
February 16th, 2013 at 12:16 pm
As I read the introduction, I see Henri is on a journey. I would like to think that as I experience this Lent, I too am on a journey, and I am ready to listen, and grow. Henri talks of his “homecoming”‘, and I am warmed by that association. I desire to walk this journey, envisioning Jesus, waiting with His arms outstretched, calling me, and welcoming me home. Jesus tells us, “Come to me all you who are weary and burdened,and I will give you rest.”
February 16th, 2013 at 2:39 pm
My name is Dan from Libertyville, Illinois.
For the past six years our parish has hosted a wekend men’s retreat. Last summer I had the pleasure of helping to coordinate our retreat using Nouwen’s book The Return of The Prodigal Son. We titled our retreat: “Prodigal Sons, Crazy Fathers and Jealous Brothers”. We asked seven men to walk into the parable and share their perspective, just as Henri Nouwen’s did. These personal witness talks centered around the central characters in the parable, Rembrandt’s painting and Nouwen’s book. Following each witness talk, the 77 men in attendance participated in table discussions and sharing. Our ambiance at the retreat included several reprints of Rembrandt’s famous painting. We even had a local artist paint his own interpretation of the parable - very cool. One of the best parts of our retreat experience was our closing ritual. We had each man walk down a long path and into the warm embrace from the biggest guy at retreat. As he hugged each man he said “You are my beloved son, on you my favor rests.”. It was very powerful.
I love how Nouwen writes in his Prologue about the prodigal son painting “All of the Gospel is there. All of my life is there. All of the lives of my friends is there. The painting has become a mysterious window through which I can step into the Kingdom of God.” That is how it felt to the men on retreat last summer and I think Nouwen was smiling down upon us. It was a real invitation to joy.
I look forward to sharing this experience with all of you this Lent.
February 16th, 2013 at 3:58 pm
Hello, my name is Marlo. I am not sure how this works exactly but I am very excited to give it a try. I believe I have read most of the books by Henri Nouwen and have always wanted to talk about them with someone else. I have never talked (written) to anyone online before so this will be a first for me!
February 16th, 2013 at 6:26 pm
Having re-read The Story, Prologue & Introduction for this discussion, I am surprised to find how much is revealed here about myself & frankly about the upcoming pages. I am retired, healthy, working part-time at something totally different than my professional life, busy & living in New Hampshire & Arizona.
I found the statement “I am still not free enough to let myself be held completely in the safe embrace of the Father. In many ways, I am still moving towards the center. I am still like the Prodigal:…But I am, indeed, on my way home.” particularly resonnating. Still working on the spiritual part & loving the journey, thanks to your sharings.
February 16th, 2013 at 11:41 pm
My name is Margaret from Ely, Nevada. I am a pharmacist and lay leader in the Episcopal Church. I have three adult sons, two daughters-in-law (and will have a third this summer) and two granddaughters.
Several years ago I read the Wounded Healer, but while browsing the internet recently I saw Henri give his “Beloved” sermons at the Crystal Cathedral. His words, voice and physical being moved me deeply! So I did some more exploring of the website and find myself here…on an online book discussion for the first time.
I’m looking forward to sharing this experience with all of you!
February 17th, 2013 at 7:15 am
Greetings. I live in upstate New York and happened upon this web site through spiritual guidance. I am in the process of reading some of his writings and they truly speak to me. I have never attended/participated in any type of book study. I was unable to purchase the book locally then attended a conference and it jumped off the shelf at me. Thus, i know God has something planned for me in this study.
February 17th, 2013 at 9:28 am
Hello my name is Gina. I am from Louisiana. I was first introduced to Henri ’s writings after the death of my father. His words gave me much guidance through grief and brought me to a place of forgiveness and peace. This is my second time reading this book. I am thrilled to be joining this Lenten study.
February 17th, 2013 at 9:44 am
As I read The Return of the Prodigal Son again, it occured to me that the stages of the review that Mr. Nowen proposes is really the stages of reconciliation…we have to recognize our sinfulness first, express our sorrow, act, and pass forgiveness to the next person..and I don’t think we can be unattached observers of all this…we have to participate. I look forwad to the journey of reconciliation with Henri Nowen…
February 17th, 2013 at 10:48 am
Hi. For years I have been reading Henri Nouwen’s books as well as the many books about him. His humanness and longing for God touches me deeply. I visited the Hermitage a few years ago and felt deep gratitude as I stood at Rembrandt’s painting of the prodical son. I recently retired from private practice as a psychotherapst and spiritual director in ATL and have moved to Waynesville NC ( near Asheville) with my husband. Yes, it’s a beautiful part of the country to live but we left our extraordianry faith and worship community back in Marietta, GA. It is a time of transition and discernment to know what God’s desires are for us here. My faith is so enriched in being a part of this group. Thank you.
February 17th, 2013 at 3:09 pm
I was given a small book by Henri Nouwen by my Pastor on the Spirit, probably 10 years ago. The book helped me to see the Holy Spirit as my guide. I later picked up the Prodigal Son when I was preparing a lecture on Luke’s gospel. After hurricane Katrina, I began a book (still unfinished) about being a Prodigal Daughter and becoming the Father, as nine family members came to live with me and my family. Today I am a graduate student in Theology, but I find I need the quiet and reflective time to rest in the Father’s love so that my spirit is renewed with love. I am so thankful for the opportunity to reflect and reconcile with God.
February 17th, 2013 at 5:45 pm
Hello Everyone,
Mine is an entry you can skip as it like so many others. I am a returning Catholic, away from the church for over 30 years. Two years ago I was in Colorado with my Mom for Easter. THere I attended mass with her throughout Holy Week and something happened. Much to my own surprise, I have been been venturing back into the fold since then.
My introduction to Henri Nouwen has happened only this week. I sought out a spiritual director in the Catholic parish I attend. This Deacon suggested this website, Nouwen’s daily reflections and prayer (of course.) I do not yet have the book, but will get it, read and perhaps make entries here.
The call to return to the church is growing. I am excited, nervous and fearful. I will include the postings here in my daily readings as I gleen any information you may have that will help me on my journey.
I have only a basic education (High School) and no learning in art at all. But I am sitting in a library and will look for a book with Rembrand’s paintings before I leave.
My spiritual journey has come full circle…how strange and wonderful life and the love of God is. THank you to all who walked this path before me and light the way for me and others like me.
February 17th, 2013 at 7:48 pm
Came across this profound teacher during my recovery…his words helped me through some dark times.
February 17th, 2013 at 7:59 pm
I went into the L’Arche bookstore in Richmond Hill and purchased a copy of ‘The Return of the Prodigal Son’ about four years ago. I knew very little about the book and its author at the time. Words cannot express how much that single book has meant to me. Nouwen’s courage in sharing his own intimate journey has given me hope for my own return to the heart of God. I have read the book more than once now, and yet, still look forward to another read with the company of others.
February 17th, 2013 at 9:10 pm
I was introduced to Nouwen’s writings in college through a music professor. I am now a K-12 music educator in TN, and the mother of a darling infant. I have faith in God but am always trying to make sense of all of our religion. Nouwen ’s writings help me not to feel alone.
February 18th, 2013 at 9:47 am
I am from Tampa, FL, have am amazing grown son and wonderful man in my life, am active in my church, and have a home-based business. I recently read Seeds of Hope which led me to learn more about Henri Nouwen. The offer of this on-line book study seemed like an ideal Lenten study for me and is the first time I am participating in an on-line discussion. While I enjoy art and have been to many art museums, I do not retain the history of the art I encounter, therefore know little about Rembrandt.
As it is for so many, the story of the return of the prodigal son is a difficult one for me. I am the older “son” (daughter). The responsible one. The one who is always there for everyone. Sometimes I wish I were the younger son, and - wow! - the insight of moving toward and becoming the father is something to really think about. I love Henri’s way of sharing his struggles and insights. Looking forward to learning more and gaining the insight of this on-line community. Thank you, Brynn, for offering to do this.
February 18th, 2013 at 11:50 am
Many thanks to all for these introductions. So wonderful to learn a little more about each one of you!
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