Reading: no text assigned for this week. You can find the link to the reading schedule in the black navigation bar, which is located directly below the photo on the top of this page.
A very warm welcome to each of you! You will find here, in the weeks ahead, a caring community of people who encourage each other in their desire after the heart of God. Henri Nouwen is our guide, as we study his books and legacy. We as facilitators do our best to make the space for this community to form, and it is truly each of you that actually creates it. If you’ve joined us before you’ll know how incredible these times are. If this is your first time – welcome!
This Lent we are very excited to be studying The Return of the Prodigal Son. Some of you may remember that we studied this same book two years ago. We believe you’ll find it well worth while to study the book again at this time. If you are the type of reader who likes to underline and make notes, you might consider getting a fresh copy of the book.
Before we jump in, it is always helpful to provide some information on how this online discussion flows. Each Sunday you will discover a new “post,” indicated by the bold title, on the blog’s Home page. This post will have discussion questions based around the week’s readings. It works best if you always add any new comment to the newest post, even if you are referring to an earlier post. That way, everyone will see your comment. After you submit a comment, either Maureen, Ray or Brynn need to “approve” it, so it may take a few hours before it actually appears on the blog page. If you have any further questions about how the blog works, please feel free to ask.
After that long introduction, we would love to hear from you!
Please introduce yourself. You may choose to share:
a) Your general geographic location
b) To whom or what you dedicate your days or energy, and why
c) Whether or not you’ve read The Return of the Prodigal Son before, and if so, how it was significant to you at that time
d) Considering the analogy of a “homecoming,” where you feel you are currently at in your journey with God
We very much look forward to hearing from each of you!
In gratitude,
Ray and Brynn
RAY GLENNON: Ray actively volunteers in his parish Confirmation and Adult Faith Formation Programs. He and his wife are members of a Catholic charismatic community where he also chairs the school board. Ray first became familiar with Henri’s work over 20 years ago. He came to know and trust Henri’s written word in a special way in 2004 when he found The Return of the Prodigal Son for sale after Mass at the cathedral in Singapore at an important point in his life. If you have any questions for Ray, please contact him at ray.glennon@1972.usna.com and you can follow him on Twitter at twitter.com/@RayGlennon.
BRYNN LAWRENCE: Brynn is a life coach and an experienced group facilitator. She has been helping to preserve Henri’s Legacy for the last five years, through her role as project coordinator of the Nouwen Archive Letter Project, and also by facilitating many of our online book discussions. Brynn is a Strategic Intervention Life Coach, and the founder of Abundant Life Coaching. If you have any questions for Brynn, please feel free to contact her at nouwen.letters@utoronto.ca or through her website.
Note on Comments: This post is now closed to comments. Please come over to the newest post, and add your comment there (including an introduction if you are just joining us). The newest post can be found by scrolling to the top of this page and clicking on the word “Home” found in the bar just below the large image. On the Home page, the newest post is always at the top, and indicated by the bold title which will always include the current week’s date.
Thank you so very much for all these wonderful introductions!! We are closing this post now, to encourage you all to come over to the newest post.
The newest post can be found by scrolling to the top of this page and clicking on the word “Home” found in the bar just below the large image. On the Home page, the newest post is always at the top, and indicated by the bold title which will always include the current week’s date.
Brynn
I am a spiritual director in San Diego. I’m looking forward to reading The Prodigal again with you all, knowing it will enrich my vision, heart and spirit.
Thank you for providing this opportunity.
As a spiritual companion and retreat director for the past 19 years,
part of my “job” is to help others see the connections with the Divine in the ordinary. I begin my introduction with this information as a statement to myself about seeing my own connections.
I have just begun companioning retreatants on a month long retreat at home, in their daily lives. The room I was given for meeting my retreatants each week has a very large (probably 3’x7’ picture of Rembrant’s Prodigal Son). Having read Henri’s
book many years ago and arriving early for my first meeting, there was time to study the picture, especially the difference in the two hands, i.e., one being a feminine hand and sleeve and the other a masculine hand and sleeve. One of the other companions came in to ask a question and stated how much he had always hated that picture. When the difference in the two hands was pointed out, the comment was made, “Maybe there is something to like about it after all.” (Hhhmmm)!
When my first retreatant came in, he also noticed the picture and mentioned that he had a much smaller version of it above his fireplace. Henri’s book was mentioned and the gentleman commented that his pastor had given a Lenten retreat based on the book but the gentleman had never finished the book, and wasn’t it really “coincidental” that we were meeting in the room with the picture he had at home, he had made a weekend Lenten retreat based on parts of the book several years ago, and I had read the book and had been assigned to be his companion for the retreat. (Retreat directors/companions are assigned at random with the only provision being that the companion does not know the directee.)
The question surfaced as to whether this was all just “coincidental” or could this possibly be where the Divine One was leading him for his month long retreat at home.
Upon returning home from the meetings and looking for my own copy of the book, it could not be found that night but was immediately found the next morning. Upon opening it to the last page I had read, the underlining fit perfectly with where I was in my own journey. That afternoon, I opened a Lenten letter from Center for Action & Contemplation (Richard Rohr) and a small copy of Rembrant’s Prodigal Son picture fell out.
Anyone who has ever done Spiritual Direction/Companioning or Retreat work readily understands that it is definitely a two-headed coin – one receives and is challenged as much as one gives and challenges. Having “stumbled” across this website, the question now surfaces- Is this where the Divine One is not only leading one of my retreatants, but where I am also being led to “spend” my own Lent?
Hello, I’m Mary and I live in New Jersey – the southern portion of the state, right outside Philadelphia. I’m in my mid-60’s, and am active in an Associate group (laity sharing the charism of a Religious order). My life’s journey has taken me many places, and many states of grace, and I am now blessed to be back in the house where I lived as a young girl. It has been the scene of much heartbreak – sadness, alcoholism, abuse, neglect, shame. It was my great fortune to be able to reclaim the house and restore it, and bring a little justice to the two generations of children raised here. I thought this was the end of my story, but recently have come to suspect God has more surprises ahead. The story of the prodigal appeals greatly to me, I am always touched by the Father’s love.
The need to “lose control” with the “risk of letting the situation control me” as stated on page 12 was especially relevant to me. As a Stage IV prostate cancer patient at age 61, and a pilot since age 17, I can relate to strong desire to be in control and the challenge and “demand requiring me to let go one more time from wanting to be in control, to give up one more time the desire to predict life…(p. 13). Significant events cause each of us to realize how little we are in control of our lives, but it can also be a time of self revelation and personal growth by “surrendering one more time to a love that knows no limits” (p. 13).
I live in a small city near Osaka, Japan.
My godmother gave me “The Return of the Prodigal Son” as a confirmation gift. I remember that I read it and was impressed, but forgot the detail, both of the book and the impression. I’m looking forward to rereading the book this Lent.
Hello from Vancouver Canada. I am a young single mother of a soon to be teenage son who is preparing for his confirmation this year. Health issues have made me unable to work for three years. The related financial difficulties as well as finally facing sexual abuse endured as a child and throughout my adult life weakened my spiritual life, I felt like I was on spiritual life support for a while which then deteriorated into a frozen coma-like state where my faith laid suspended up to the present moment waiting to be thawed by God’s burning love for us. I have not read the Return of the Prodigal Son, but I have been aware of how I miss my faith, my prayer time with God, and how much I need him. I am really exited to spend this lent prayerfully coming back to life as the prodigal daughter who was (almost) dead, and is now coming back to life. Talitha koum.
Ana… Know that you are in a safe and compassionate community. May the Lord give you peace and continue to call you during our Lenten journey to homecoming. … Ray
Dear all,
I am from the Republic of Panama (Central America). I am a retired administrative assistant but still working on temporary basis. At this moment, I am participating actively in my parish and also dedicate some time to a non-profit organization that help and accompany persons with diseases in a terminal phase at home. Since I had the experience with the Ignatian exercises and spirituality, I try to participate and transmit also some of my knowledge and experience I have had.
I read The Return of the Prodigal Son” long time ago and at the time it helped me to understand more clearly the immesurable Father´s compassion. But I have also read other books from Henri Nowen. I keep Handy “The Inner Voice of Love”. What impacts me the most from him is his liberty for being himself and express his emotions freely to help others and to transmit a kind of liberty . When I realized that you were going to have a discussion on this book I felt so happy and immediately wanted to participate!
With respect to the “homecoming” aspect, I feel that I am on the way and the journey has its ups and downs but what is importat is to persevere. And this blog is a great tool to help us to continue!
Brynn and Ray, thanks a lot! I look forward to start!
Hello! I am anxious to spend this Lenten season with this reflection! This will be my second reading; the first was truly enlightening, and then I gave my copy to an Orthodox priest, thinking I wouldn’t want to read it again…Now I’ve gotten a new copy, along with an enlarged poster to dwell on as we progress!
Although I thought I retired 5 years ago, I’ve been working on staff at a Franciscan Prayer Center, serving and welcoming our guests to a contemplative experience. I never dreamed that cooking, cleaning and doing laundry would be so rewarding!
I am looking forward to feeling the Father’s hands on my shoulders…thank you Ray & Brynn!!!
Oh my gosh! I’ve tried to introduce myself at least 3 times, and I keep being called away before I can finish. Finally, I’m not moving until I finish!
Twyla said that when she read this book, it turned her “fear into LOVE”! That’s just what I need now. I’m trying to offer my sister spiritual support in her return to Jesus, and I pray to find the right words to encourage and uplift her. You see, she’s been fighting pancreatic cancer for over 3 years, and the cancer seems to be getting the best of her. Since her illness was diagnosed, she’s opened her heart to know and love Jesus more; my prayer is that she will face her eternity without fear, and filled with the certainty that she is LOVED. So, this message of Homecoming is especially relevant to me just now.
I live in Wisconsin with my hubby. As a former special ed teacher who now subs 3-4 days a week, I treasure God’s blessings. Life has thrown many monkey wrenches at us, but each one renews our awareness of how much God loves us, and can be trusted to guide us through each of life’s storms.
I’m really looking forward to this book study, as I’ve read Nouwen for many years on my own. The chance to dialogue with all of you, and enhance my understanding of what he offers, is really exciting!
Blessings!
This is my first experience in an online discussion group. My educational background is in art and theology. I have been teaching for 15 years — mostly high school religion, though I’m state certified in art. I finished a master’s degree in theology in 2005 at St. Mary’s Seminary and University – Ecumenical Institute in Baltimore Maryland. I earned 18 credits toward my degree at The John Paul II Institute for Studies on Marriage and Family. While at the JPII Institute, I was fortunate enough to attend a day long seminar on this book, Rembrandt’s painting and Henri Nouwen’s experience in the Hermitage. The speakers at this seminar were phenomenal. What I remember most was the lecture on Rembrandt’s painting given by an Art History professor. He called attention to the two hands of the “father” which are resting on the back and shoulder of the “younger son.” He pointed out that the father’s right hand is clearly a feminine hand in contrast to his left, which is thicker, gnarly, and a bit rougher. He went on to explain the forceful, yet subbtle underscoring in this painting of both the feminine and masculine attributes of God. God as our Father is at once both feminine (warm, gentle, and tender in his love for us, his allowing us to run to him like a child runs to his mother when he is hurting and in pain) and masculine (strong, powerful, protective, with an expectation that we will “step up to the plate” with courage when he calls on us to do so). I’m not trying to “gender stereo-type” here, but that part of the talk on this painting has never left me. Considering the analogy of a homecoming, I always feel like I am light years away from God. I am forever seeking, and forever disheartened that can’t “Let go and let God” work more fully in my life. I’m really looking forward to being part of the discussion group on this book — hoping it will help me to a deeper experience of God in my life.
Thank you for the invitation to journey with you. I’m new to Henri Nouwen’s writings, but looking forward to learning more.
I’m a retired educator and now have time to continue my spiritual journey with more attention and devotion than I’ve had in the past.
I’m somewhat familiar with Nouwen’s writing, but this will be the first reading of this book. I work full time as organist/choir director in a United Church of Christ congregation in Concord, Massachusetts and live in Boston. I grew up as a Lutheran in northwest Pennsylvania, and in the past few years I’ve found spiritual nourishment in Benedictine monastic retreats and immersion experiences. I find inspiration in not only scripture, but also in Thomas Merton and in translations of writings by Julia of Norwich, Teresa of Avila, Rumi and Hafiz.
Friends old and new,
As we prepare to embark on our spiritual journey together, I thought you might be interested to know that our fellowship includes seekers from at least 20 different nations representing every continent except Antarctica. From North America we have participants from Mexico, at least five Canadian provinces, and 34 states from the USA. From Europe: England, Wales, Ireland, Italy, Netherlands, Germany. From South America: Argentina, Brazil, Peru. From Asia: Japan, Taiwan, Singapore. From Africa: Zimbabwe Plus Australia & India
I just finished the reading The Story…, the Prologue, and the Introduction and I’m looking forward to the community discussion that will follow.
Peace and all good.
Ray
Twitter: @RayGlennon
Hello everyone,
I’m Patty:Wife, mother, grandmother, woman of faith, community volunteer, and peace advocate. I am highly interested in most Ecumenical and Interfaith faith sharing opportunities. And local opportunities to serve the poor and live united.
I am retired from the following areas of employment: Pastoral Associate/DRE of our parish (1988-2007); Exec. Dir of our Diocesan Pastoral Council (2000-2012); Instructor of Photography&Printmaking – and Ceramics Instructor and Program Coordinator for our city recreation department(197o’s-1990’s don’t remember dates).
I am Mother of 3, GRANDMOTHER of 6,Step-GM of 7, and WIFE of the most precious hard headed German I’ve ever known – for the last 50+ years! Our 50th wedding anniversary was 9/11.
We live in the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia (where it is really snowing right now!).
I spend most of my time reading and volunteering; and continuing to lead the SDI (Spiritual Direction Institute) founded by my Spiritual Director, and beloved mentor, Fr. Chet Michael (aka Msgr. Chester P. Michael, Priest, Author, Spiritual Director, and founder of The Open Door, Inc.). It was Fr. Michael who introduced me to Henri Nouwen in the early 90’s – when an SDI student. In 2005, Fr. Michael invited me to be his assistant. He lived to be 97 years young. Most of my work these days is spent using his curriculum, mentoring new teams, and developing the Spiritual Direction Institute for others.
I look forward to personally delving into Henri Nouwen’s classic even more deeply this Lent. I consider prayer as all of the above. plus a few pauses in between.
So happy to be here with all of you seekers. This is my second Nouwen retreat, and I send my gratitude to our facilitators.
It is also my second exploration of the prodigal son account in Scripture. The first time, in an online forum headed by a monk from Mt Athos, we did lectio divina on this story. It was my first time doing lectio (I was not raised as a Catholic), and I was amazed at the results.
I am so looking forward to revisiting this experience with all of you beloveds!
May we all be blessed on our journey together,
Judy
Hi,
I currently reside in Natchitoches, Louisiana and am a member of the Episcopal church. I have read several of Nouwen books, and really love his message. The Prodigal Son and the Beloved are my favorites. We studied this several years ago in n Adult Ed at chuch and I look forward to reading it in a new light.
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Hi everyone, and thanks to our hosts for extending this privilege.
When I was a pastor in Oshawa, Ontario it was a blessing to participate in a pastor’s 1-day session with Henri. Given the severe stress I was under at the time, this encounter with Henri was one of those transformational “God moments”. I needed to hear and understand I was beloved. Henri Nouwen’s life, legacy and writings have come to occupy a pivotal place in my life and ministry.
I divide my ‘retirement’ time between Southern Ontario, the Southern States and South America (specifically Brazil), coming alongside Christian leaders, students and congregations in the cause of leadership development.
Henri’s ‘Homecoming’ book helps me to communicate the leadership calling as a journey with God. Now that I am in my 60’s, I feel that God has brought me to a primary identity as father to younger leaders, especially the increasing number of ‘sons’ He keeps sending along my path.
To all who have already posted, thank you for the blessing of your comments.
Wow – the warmest welcome to each of you! Thank you for being open and ready to share and encourage. It is wonderful to hear from “old friends” who have participated in past discussions – to hear your updates and your enthusiasm to participate again. Of course, it is equally exciting to hear new voices in the group – I trust this will be an important time for you to draw closer to the heart of God.
One of the things I love most about this group is the gentle and kind way you respond to each other, and encourage each other. So thank you for continuing to do that!
This is the tenth or eleventh discussion I’ve been a part of, and Henri’s books have never failed to help me grow in my faith. But I particularly remember when I read this book for the first time (two years ago for the Lenten discussion) … I was really blown away. I’m excited to see what God reveals to me this time.
Looking forward to jumping into the text very soon.
Yours,
Brynn
Hi all
So glad to be reading and discussing this amazing book together, and thank you to Brynn and Ray for leading again. Henri left us such wonderful words that fill us and bring us even closer to being in touch with God’s love.
I am looking forward to this time togther. I pray for us on this journey.
God Bless,
Dr. Connie
greetings, i am Marianne from Kentucky, I am a musician , teacher and most of all an advocate for the planet, helping raise awareness to resposible stewardship of its Natural resources..I am an admirer of Henri Nouwen,, He has been a guide for many years..I am delighted to be part of the group…
Just joining. Waiting in joyful hope for the fruitfulness of sharings. The return of the prodigal is my favorite Nouwen book.
I live in charleston West Virginia but am writing while celebrating the year of the sheep in Shanghai chinc with my godson and family. I am on staff with the West Virginia institute for spirituality as associate spiritual director , training others in ministry of spiritual direction, also director of charleston chapter of Merton institute. Grateful that the grace revealed in Nouwen is gathering us together. Peace to all!
Hi, I am delighted to be joining my first online discussion. How appropriate for Lent to have a special time of study. With Soni, I agree that Lent should be a time apart to draw closer to the Father. I live in Peru half-time – along the northern desert coast, in order to see my daughter and my only two grandchildren. The rest of the year, I live in Washington State, also in the desert, on the east side of the State. I am Episcopalian now, was raised as a Catholic, and have been all over the Protestant board in between. I seek the Lord where He will be found. Here in Peru I work with my daughter and her husband to set up, fund, and supply the Christian preschool they have along with their church. I also am the ‘research assistant’ to find the week’s craft for the appropriate lesson for the Kids’ Klub, as well as any activities or games needed. I love to sew and I have made it a ministry to supply large, warm flannel/cotton blankets for any babies here needing one. Babies born to the preschool’s parents, neighbors of the barrio where my kids’ church is, or taken to the orphanage in the nearby town – any baby I find out about, is sent a blanket sewn with love and prayer. I enjoy it so much. God has me serve in very practical ways and that suits my own personality very well. I look forward to hearing everyone’s comments and reflections on what we are reading in the book each week!
My name is Julia and I live in Richmond on the west coast of Canada. After many difficulties finding my vocation and struggling with lupus and migraine, I am learning to be an artist. My art is fuelled by stillness, time in creation, and a growing awareness of the unseen world.
I have not read Return of the Prodigal, but have long relied on the writings and humble presence of Henri Nouwen as one of my pillars of spiritual support. Although I have been on my journey home for three decades, I long to walk more closely and consistently with my Lord. Being at home most of the time, I am looking forward to learning with a group this Lent. Thank you so much for this opportunity.
I am from southern California. I have never read this book but looking forward to it. I also paint so excited to discover the connection with Rembrandt. I am married with three children with two at home and one in college. Regarding homecoming, I have been a believer all my life, with varying degrees of intentionality and awareness. Recently I have rekindled my connection with my catholic faith. I grew up in a catholic home and went to parochial school for 8 years. I married a non catholic but a Christian. I am really enjoying my relationship with Jesus and seeing everything in a new way including the mass. So in some ways I am coming home in that respect. I have been shown and encouraged by Henri’s writings that every moment is open to coming home to rest in the presence of His unconditional love! Grateful to be a part of this discussion group.
I just found our about this Lenten journey and look forward to rereading a book that I have vey much enjoyed reading in the past. My name is Max Coppes, I was born in the Netherlands, and moved to North America in 1988. A one year training assignment at the Hospital for Sick Children in Toronto (I am a pediatric oncologist), turned into immigration. Since 1988, my wife Arty and I (and our 3 now grown up children) moved from Toronto, to Cleveland, to Calgary, to Washington DC, to Vancouver, and last year to Reno, where I became the Chief Medical & Academic Officer at Renown Health. Throughout I have remained committed to have my spiritual life be part of my professional and personal life, but as many of you know, that is easier said than done. I hope that as part of this community I will find renewed strength and inspiration to be more like God intended me to be, rather than explaining Him what works best for me……..
I love your last sentemce! …rather than explaining to Him what works best for me….boy can I relate to that! Blessings
Hi!
So glad to be joining again from western Colorado. I got the book this summer but it looked at me and I didn’t pick it up. For some reason the parable of the prodigal son has always made me uneasy. Maybe because I don’t want to examine who I am in all of it. When I learned it would be discussed in the Lenten study I began reading it and have found myself thinking about it frequently.
I have done the two previous studies and each has led me closer in my walk with God. There is definitely a feeling of community among the participants. I recognize some of you from previous studies and send my greetings.
During the Advent study I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Since the study ended I have had surgery and radiation and have been learning about God’s grace, gratitude and thanksgiving. I am a very fortunate cancer survivor.
I am a school nurse, hoping to retire in another year, mother of three grown children, have two precious grandchildren and a great husband. Looking forward to this Lenten experience. Thanks Brynn and Ray.
Hello! I am Irena from Ukraine, but now currently I am living in Canada in Lethbridge. I am walking my journey in beautiful community L’arche. I’ve already read book in Ukraine long time ago. This book touched me very much. It was my beginning on my journey to home. Now I feel like I see home very far, I still can’t reach it. I am very happy to be part of this group.
Peace
Irena
Greetings! I am from Central Alberta, Canada. These days I dedicate all my energy to recovery. I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer during last spring book study, finished my Chemo during the Advent Study, had surgery in January and will be doing my radiation treatments during this Lent.
As a Registered Nurse, wife and mother of 3, I’m used to being in the giving role so receiving is new in different ways. Battling Cancer is fear-invoking because we know it has the ability to take our life, but, really – it’s just another part of our journey. God sends what you need in many different ways.
I read The Return of the Prodigal Son with this group 2 years ago. I’ve never considered myself pious in any way. It was the first time I identified with other than the Prodigal Son so that was a good exercise!
In my journey with God – definitely home. Just thankful for any reminders from Him about how much that is so.
Looking forward to the journey. Marianne
I am glad you are back!
So glad to see you back Marianne, I was hoping you would. My husband and I have been praying for you since you started this journey with cancer. We will continue to pray for you. You have come a long way and may our Lord continue to journey with you. Blessings, Lata
I am from the state of Maryland in the United States.
I’ve only read one of Henri nouwen’s books- life of the beloved.
I am from a evangelical non-denominational background, and it grieves me that Lenten period is considered in a light or trivial manner among the evangelical circles sometimes. I like the idea of dedicated period set apart to seek the Lord and that is what I want this to be for me, to draw closer to my Father’s heart.
I´m so happy to be reading The return of the prodigal son again… The first time was twenty years ago and the book was a present from my mother in law. It was the first contact that I had with Henri Nouwen and since then I have been reading most of his books being deeply moved by his spirituality of compassion and hospitality. I´m from Guadalajara, Mexico and I devote my days to God, my family (husband and three sons) and learning from sick people as a minister of the Holy Communion.
This Lent will be special to me because I made the purpose of sharing this readings with three friends. Each week we will join to discover the book. When we find something so good in our lives I believe it is important to give it to others and this is the first time I will do it. Thank you Ray and Brynn for helping us in this journey.
I there! I live in the San Fernando Valley in So Cal. My first reading of one of Nouwen’s books was many years ago and then recently rediscovered him. I jumped in on the last online reading group with the Spirituality of Living. I am a receptionist at a large church in the San Fernando Valley. I am also currently attending Fuller Seminary in Pasadena,CA, taking one class each quarter. This is fulfilling a life long dream to attend Fuller. I am involved with the recovery ministry at my church which is all about returning home to the Father! I feel as though my whole life has been a pilgrimage of returning home to the Father as I grew up in a crazy alcoholic family. Every Sunday, though, as a child, all seven of us up would show up in church. Talk about having a warped view of God! God has been faithful in lovingly peeling away the layers of hurt and brokenness and restoring my life. I look forward to our journey together through this amazing book.
Hello, I am living with my husband of 46 years in frozen Cape Cod, MA. I am mostly retired but work part time in a local mental health clinic as mental health therapist. I am a licensed social worker and this is just the spot for me with very heroic but poor people.
I am looking forward to this journey of faith with all of you and with Henri Nouwen.
Thank you for your kind comments. I do appreciate your kindness. Liz
Read this book some time ago. Sorry to say its a bit dusty now. Look forward to reading it again this Lent and sharing with all the folks.
I live in the Big Apple or today it’d be the Frozen Apple. I find my “sacred space” in the morning. The wonderful book, Magnificat, helps me to focus. I like “Living Faith” booklets as well. I find the website “Sacred Space” is a good way to hear, reflect and pray the daily Gospel.My aim is to connect with the One who leads me along life-giving waters. I pray as I open the curtains, “Be a light unto my path and a lamp for my feet.” I participate in the Benedictine “Monastery of the Heart” website sponsored by the Benedictines of Erie, PA. May the example of the Compassionate Father who embraces his Progidal son enter into our hearts and into every little space of our lives. Thanks for this group and those who lead us.
From Tim
As I enter my own desert for my personal desire to be closer to Him, I am looking forward to the experience of having The Return of the Prodigal Son be a dwelling place as I make my way through Lent. Peace be with you all. Tim
From Dcn Marlon
Nice comments. A really nice way to begin Lent. I too found this book to be a spiritual experience of coming home. My prayers are for everyone to grow closer to the Father over these forty days-God bless!!
I have only read a little of Henri Nouens writings, one short book, Life of the beloved and a collection of short pieces from some of his books with an introduction by Robert Jonas. I finished paid work last year and am feeling quite anxious, depressed and overwhelmed by too much to do.i have had quite a lot of depression and anxiety before. I have been especially interested in some of the thoughts in Life of the beLoved and some of Robert Jonas insights in the introduction to the other book. I think he is a psychotherapist so sometimes wonder if he could help me.i am not sure where I am in terms of homecoming- sounds a long way off, I think! I attend a United reform church sometimes and occasionally a Quaker meeting. Sorry to not sound cheerful and grateful! Thank you
Hi Liz,
An elderly Priest friend said to me years ago when I was struggling
” you are perfectly acceptable to God just as you are”.
I have relied on this over the years. To me it doesn’t mean I remain stagnant in my life/faith journey, but that I continue aware of God’s unconditional love, no matter what I think of myself or how I see myself at any particular time.
I think you and I and our brothers and sisters that are journeying with us through this wonderful opportunity will come to a deeper understanding/realization of God our Father’s unconditional love.
You are in my prayers Liz as are many others who have touched my heart through their introductions to us.
Bob Brittain
Welcome Liz, no need to apologize, each of us have our times of feeling broken. Henri did too, which may be why we are so called to his message! I too have battled with depression, one of my lessons learned is the importance of community…so again I say WELCOME to this little group of Lenten pilgrims. Looking forward to the journey.
I am really struggling with anxiety and depression too Liz. It is my privilege to walk through this journey with you. You have already been helpful to me and I am going to look into the other readings you mentioned in your post. God bless.
I live in Ohio. I have been an organist and a Sunday School teacher for many years. Henri Nouwen and his books are treasures to me. I look forward to this Lenten journey with all of you and I feel especially blessed to be a part of it. May God draw us closer to Him and each other as we enter this Lenten season of prayer and repentance.
From Saki Lee
Hello everyone from the Netherlands! I am just starting to discover the pearls of Henri Nouwen that has been hidden in the heartland of his mother country the Netherlands
I am grateful to be able to enter the depth of his inspiring teachings this Lent
Good Morning,
I’m a Brooklyn, NY girl that moved to South Orange, NJ in 1961 so my husband could teach at Seton Hall University. Been here ever since.
I’m a great fan of Henri. Looking forward to our Lenten journey together.
Carolyn
First of all Thank you Brynn and Ray for leading us through Lent. I am looking forward to being a part of this Lenten journey. I have been reading this book since I received it and now I look forward to starting it all over again with all of you.
I live in Halifax, Nova Scotia, on the east coast of Canada. We are at the moment a snowbound and Ice-covered city. Lata
Hi, I belong to a religious order called the Franciscan Missionaries of Mary (FMM). I live in a small town called Avinashi, in Tamilnadu in South India.
At the moment I am recouping. I was hospitalized after a stroke, where I was treated and underwent physiotherapy for two years.I am not involved in active ministry but spend my time in prayer.
I first read the book in 1993 when I was working out some resentment. After that I had used to prepare talks to different groups.
I knew Fr. Nouwen personally from my student days in the US. Fr. used to guide me spiritually.I have been helped much by Father and I consider it a privilege to join the group for this lenten journey.
At this moment, after one of the life stopping events (the paralysis and the prolonged hospitalization – where I had enough time to reflect and pray) I feel the need to become the FATHER. The desire is there and I think my chancing this book discussion at this moment is not a mere coincidence but God incident. Eagerly looking forward to be inspired and helped…
Thank you Sr. Josephine for joining this group. As a person who spends life in prayer and having been helped spiritually by Father Henri Nouwen, I think you are a unique gift for this group and I thank God for that. Please, if you can, share with us some of your special moments with Fr. Nouwen. I´ll be praying for your recovery and health.
Hello everyone,
It is my honour to be able to join the group. I am currently living and working in Taiwan. I have purchased Henri’s book more than two years ago and purchased Rembrandt’s replica to help me understand more. I would like to listen and learn more from all of you. By the way, my English is not fluent enough so please excuse me if I have not been clear enough. Thank you and Happy New Year of the Sheep!
Antonio,
Welcome and thanks for joining us. And you English is great. We look forward to journeying with you.
Ray
Antonio, I think your English is wonderful! I taught high school English for eight years and I had many American-born students who did not speak or write English as well as you! Don’t apologize! You are great!
Thank you Brynn and Ray for this special Lenten gift of journeying toward Easter
together. I’m in a good and open place to receive whatever God wants to give me in this time. I have been struggling with discouragement lately and I hate to admit it.
I love God and know He can do anything, but for some time I haven’t been able to strongly feel his action in my life. I do know God is there, and can see his Hand in
other’s lives, but dimly in my own. I feel guilty saying this because he does answer
lots of my prayers but on a certain important one to me, I feel he leaves me hanging.
OK, now that I’ve gotten that out, I want to say that I look forward to homecoming
and to hearing God speak to me through the community. God bless everyone.
I have always heard about Henri Nouwen but have never read one of his books. I am also new to online studies. I am looking forward to this!
Looking forward to revisiting this book just as Rembrandt invites us again and again into the scene of his fascinating painting. First read Return of the Prodigal Son while preparing a forgiveness talk for a retreat given during Advent. In both Advent and Lent we are invited to make straight the way of the Lord into our hearts. The talk concluded with this prayer:
Heavenly Father, I am your beloved child. You are with me always, even when I choose to be that Prodigal son and let my feet and eyes take me to foreign lands of poor choices. Yet, your forgiving arms are always open to welcome me home. When will I finally comprehend the enormity of your love?
Heavenly Father, I am your beloved child. I am sometimes the older son when prideful self and resentment put distance between my sister, my brothers, and You. Like Lazarus in that dark and chilly tomb, bound by my own silly choices, I hear your Son calling me forth from a forgiven past that matters nothing. What is keeping me from coming into the light and warmth of your love?
Heavenly Father, your Son given us the beautiful story of the Prodigal son as an example of your forgiveness and unconditional love. You invite me, made in Your image and likeness, to become like You, to make a straight way for your Son to my heart, to pulverize my stones of anger, pride, and ingratitude and to reconstitute them into cornerstones of Christ-like character and love, strengthened together with your Divine mortar. What’s keeping me, your beloved child, from expressing to everyone whom I encounter: All that I have been given is gift alone; all that I have is yours? How would you have me use these gifts you have given, how would you have me use them until your Son comes again? O Come, O Come Emmanuel.
Hello,
I am a woman, 57, in southwestern New Hampshire, the Monadnock Region.
I have read some Henri Nouwen. My favorite is Genesee Diary, which I often use devotionally for contemplation. I have not read Prodigal Son before and was interested in this reading group, when I saw the notice on Twitter, as my sister in law has read it and highly recommended it.
I am a Christian, baptized as an infant, various churches as a child a youth, born-again at age 20 while studying overseas in college at a seminary, studied for the ministry, was a bi vocational pastor for 10 years 2003-2013. Then converted to the Roman Catholic Church at Easter 2014; I love being a Catholic!
Looking forward to the discussion here.
Marian
WELCOME!
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From Deb Gustafson
Looking forward to reading this one!
From Keith Trevet
I am Keith, an avid Nouwen lover living in a small Australian coastal town about 300 mile or 370km north from Sydney. I have devoured this book many a time and find it to be ‘significant’ every time I read or even think about it. I think you could apply any of life’s questions to this parable and find some level of understanding or insight to the question from it’s very few words. My days are filled with family work and life with every day having the goal of being fruitful! As for homecoming – I do not really have a clue where I am but, with the risk of sounding arrogant, I do know I have been embraced and kissed.
I was prompted by a friend to share in this reflection for Lent and thought what a really wonderful thing to do, to share this lenten communion with you all – a sort of contemplative pilgrimage. Looking forward to it.
God Bless
Keith
From Trish Allard
I was given a copy of The Return of the Prodigal Son by my sister who encouraged me to read it last summer. I found a kindred spirit with Henri Nouwen and the deepness of his words and experiences opened a door for me, way down deep in my heart. I have gathered 3 dear friends with me and will begin reading and discussing this book starting next week. I am amazed at the timing of this Lenten study. It will enrich my little group and draw us all closer to our Creator & Saviour.
I am an older lady with grown children and little grandchildren and a very forgiving husband of 37 years. I love Jesus and want to know Him much more deeply than ever before. This will be just awesome!!
From Sue Zemaitis
Hi everyone, I’m from Jacksonville, Florida. Just recently relocated from Queens, NY. Read the book several years ago and it had such an impact on me for I have such a close relationship with my father. I am looking forward to this book study. Blessings.
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From Terry
One of 2 books under study now with 2 groups. Nice to be retired!
From Mark
I am from Rock Hill, SC and work with a small company. I have read this book several times and gifted it several times. I am looking forward to a discussion with many others and am anxious to witness the impact it has. It certainly impacted me.
From Hilda Dargon
Thank you for this opportunity to which I am very much looking forward .Last year’s Lenten experience with this blog and the readings enriched me so much. Best wishes to all of us !
From Doris
This is my first time to blog on the study. I love Henri Nouwen’s book The Prodigal. I have read it several times and I have marked it and reread. It is a book for everyone and I too am excited to read what all will write, their thoughts and experiences. I know that this book is for everyone and Henri is one of my favorite authors and have read many of his books. Thank you all as you blog for I will surely learn more.
From Busi Madzorera
i am Busi from Bulawayo. i read the book last year and it made me realise that i always consider myself the prodigal son never did i think of situations that call on me to be the father. i am joinig for the first time and look forward to the discussions. iam from Bulawayo
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From Susan Schneider
A year ago, my husband of 52 years suddenly passed in a heartbeat. So after several months of trying to coming to grips with that, 4 daughters, 3 sons-in-law & 7 grandchildren all helping each other to accept what life had presented that day in March, I remembered how much Henri Nouwen’s book, With Open Hands, had moved me years ago when first reading it. Prior to this I also had been trying, half-heartedly, to work on a deeper spiritual relationship with my God. With the encouragement and help of some wonderful friends I have started this and With Open Hands again has brought beautiful meaning to me daily. Several of Nouwen’s other books are part of the daily meditation/prayer and all have been very helpful to finding a mix of joy and thankfulness in my sorrow as I make this journey. Support of family and friends have carried me through and I will be ever thankful for the sustenance they provide. I look forward to reading this book and learning from all those also reading what it brings to them, that they will share with us all.
Peace,
Susan
From Saki Lee in Reply to Sue Schneider May the light of God’s infinite love be with you And your family always
From Jeanne
Looking forward to this online Lenten discussion on The Return of the Prodigal Son.
From Don Serreyn
Hello, Everyone.
I am a retiree living in Minnesota. I am looking forward to again reading The Return. One of my most memorable experiences with Henri’s book was an opportunity to meditate upon paintings of The Return, done by local artists and displayed at a Benedictine monastery near us. These meditations were then shared with other participants in a weekend retreat.
From Jennifer Collins
Hello Everyone,
Good to be joining you from the beautiful cathedral city of Wells, Somerset, England.
I’m looking to rereading The Return, each time I do there`s something new to ponder.
Blessings
Jennifer
Hello Everyone, I am so glad to be part of this Lovley Lenten Group.
I have read this wonderful Book b4… and I am thrilled to do it again.
It was significant to me in that this Bible story, along with Henri’s Insights…..
truly took me from “Fear to LOVE” 🙂
So much Spiritual Food to Feast on in this ~!!
While there may be some needed Fasting for Lent, This book is a continual FEAST that will get me through Lent and I look forward to being REFRESHED and FED.
Being part of a wonderful group to share this all with I believe will enhance the Feast
and the Celebration of Learning 🙂
Shalom ~!!
I am from Ontario and am delighted to be part of this Lenten journey. I was given a copy of The Return of the Prodical Son recently so this is an awesome way to delve into the book.
Greetings from Brentwood, TN! I signed up for the daily devotions a while back and have been so encouraged! My former pastor had the front cover of the book as his facebook cover page, and I was so drawn to it. I purchased the book and it sits on my shelf partially read, as so many others do. My prayer during this Lenten season is that I renew my hope and dependence on the Lord and surrender my prodigal children, once again, as new issues arise.
Wow…to SURRENDER my Prodigal children…never thought of it that way, but when I read this it was like an arrow striking my heart. Thank you.
Hello, my name is Susan, and I am from Richmond, Virginia. I am a member of a Baptist church where I sing in the choir. I discovered Henri Nouwen through The Wounded Healer, as I am very interested in pastoral care and counseling, and volunteer with Hospice and helping with the homeless. I have never read Return of the Prodigal Son, but have a number of friends who have read it and highly recommend it!
Hey y’all!
I live in beautiful Augusta, GA where I am growing as the beloved of the Father. My days are spent adoring my bride of 14 years and doting on our 5 children. I serve vocationally as a Financial Advisor and spend my volunteer time promoting the arts, serving folks with disabilities and teaching financial education.
I have read Prodigal Son 5 or 6 times. No book has informed me more of who God is and who I am. Issues of identity and value are a regular struggle for me and God has used this book many times to return me to His truth.
Mine has been a life filled with potential and expectation. However, I have often viewed my potential as wasted and my expectations as unrealized. Currently God is showing me that, in His love for me, He is working through my disappointment and frustration to draw me nearer to him and write the story He has for my life rather than allowing me to write my own story. “Homecoming” at this point in my life has a lot to do with grateful submission to God’s sovereign and loving work in every aspect of my life, even (and especially) in the aspects that I dislike, did not plan and often just want to go away.
Ogden
Hello, I am located in New Jersey. I have read “The Prodigal Son” before, for a Spiritual Formation Class in Seminary. However, I was already familiar with Henri Nouwen and Jean Vanier prior to that, being introduced to their material and their lives through an earlier seminary class on Disability Theology. Now that I have finished my MDiv, I am pursuing an MA in Disability Studies. I work for Easter Seals as a direct support provider for adults with Intellectual Disability. I am an adjunct professor at our local community college, working with young adults with Intellectual Disability. I am also the care provider for my brother who has an Intellectual Disability. I am very familiar with L’Arche communities and fully support this style of living, in an egalitarian community with our brothers and sisters. Nouwen speaks to me on many levels. Looking forward to engaging in dialogue with fellow reader/thinkers!
Hello to all of you in this blessed community. So wonderful to see so many familiar
friends as well as some new travelers with us on this journey…welcome! You will find great love, support, spiritual insight, wisdom and acceptance here. I have been a “regular” on these book discussions and they have been an unimaginable blessing for me in my life.
Henri came along in my life exactly when I needed him, and like Ray said, Henri has been a “close and trusted friend’ in my life for many years even though I never met him. I like to refer to him as my “guru”. My recent journey with this community through Advent was life-changing for me…in ways that I am sure will re-surface as we share this journey through Lent.
I participated in a discussion on the Prodigal Son here a few years ago and am so happy we are re-visiting this amazing book. I was deeply moved then and am confident that God will reveal even more to me as we travel together through this beautiful story again.
Peace to you all…we are all wounded healers.
Diane C.
ps. I forgot….I live in a small-town community in Northern New Jersey and am married for 36 years to my high-school sweetheart. We have 2 beautiful daughters…one lives in Colorado and the other is in her junior year of college in Kentucky. Both beautiful places to visit 🙂 So..we have a bit of the “empty nest” going on and we are wondering where God will take us next? Right now I am a 13 year veteran teacher of 12-13 year old middle school students and, through the contemplation of the Advent season, God has led me to the decision that this will be my last year of teaching. My husband and I are anticipating a downsizing and relocation at this point….I wonder what God has in store for us next? Looking forward to sharing this journey with all of you.
Blessings…diane 🙂
I live in southern England and am looking forward to this Lenten journey together.
A friend told be about your website and I signed up for emeditations and am excited to participate in the Lenten reading.
I have read Nouwen’s work but usually in an anthology.
I live in Richmond Hill. Yes that Richmond Hill. I lived for a year as a house assistant at Daybreak. This was after Henri’s death. A few years before my friend Dorothy and I heard Henri speak about the Return of the Prodigal Son. Dorothy asked Henri a question and he gave her the poster of the painting.
I haven’t read the book – yet.
I am wondering if God has a plan for us.
Hello! My name is Megan Modes. I am 24 and from San Juan Capistrano, CA. I have read this book before a few years ago, and of course it was significant. I’ve never read a Nouwen book that was not. It really helped me find more inner freedom.
I feel like I have been seeking Jesus, but in regards to the analogy of homecoming I really want to know if there is a place for me in ministry. This past year after prayerful consideration I pulled out of ministry for many different reasons. Where does God want me? What am I suppose to be doing with my time? That is also what I would like to dedicate my time and energy to this study.
This is my first time joining the online book group. I have always wanted to and am happy to be here!
This prodigal daughter lives in New York City. The Return of the Prodigal Son is the first book of Henri’s that I read a few years ago. I look forward to a deepening spiritual journey with you all. Theresa
I am happy to be joining with others as we explore Henri Nouwens book, The Return of the Prodigal Son. I have had this book in my library for several years and yet never read it. I have read several other of Henri’s books though and consider him an important mentor.
Greetings from the “banana belt” of Idaho, with unseasonably warm temperatures in the 60s this week. (Sorry, New England!) When I retired 4 years ago, I experienced my own “homecoming” after 25 years gone, returning to Idaho to live near my children. I read this book years ago, and have been trying (to no avail) to get a women’s study group to join me in re-reading it. Delighted to find like-minded people online! I devote my time to church activities, particularly those that encourage people to experience the presence of Christ in a more real and personal way……. and to AAUW projects that support issues impacting women.
I live in Dallas, TX, with my wife and three young children (7, 5, and 1.5). I serve at First Baptist Church in Richardson, TX, as the missions pastor. I’ve been reading Henri Nouwen for 15 years. No one has articulated the most important things as well as he has, in my opinion. I first read The Return of the Prodigal Son close to 15 years ago and have since referred to it as my favorite book of all time. I’ve given copies away and used (what I remember to be) its contents in sermons and teaching numerous times. However, I haven’t read the book through since that first time. I’m really looking forward to reading it again and doing that with an online community of people.
Life is very full right now. I try to carve out space every day to be still, to listen, to pray, but it’s been difficult with busy work, marriage, three small kids, financial stresses (i.e., life) to feel at home. I need the touch of the Father and look forward to journeying through this book again.
Dear Fellow Pilgrims,
Blessings upon all as we venture together through the ever deepening world of experience and Scripture. I am honored to be amongst such lovely and diverse seekers. I currently hail from Northern Kentucky USA and serve as a hospital chaplain. Henri is a great teacher. Thank you all, may we know God’s abundant love for us (warts and all!) this Lenten season.
Anne
Thanks for putting this together. Detroit, MI
I am a retreat leader in Ohio and serve on the board for a Christian retreat center in Indiana, and have long been influenced by the voice of Henri Nouwen. Slowing, rereading this book, offers a space to walk intentionally with God and others towards the hope of the resurrection through the grace of the cross. I am looking to find His present mercies as I walk the homecoming journey with my dying aunt who knows The Way, and is graciously helping others walk in it as well. Life as journey homeward is familiar and I look forward to hearing how God speaks through this community as we walk through the pages of this book in this season of Lent.
I am so excited to be joining this group. I have been meaning to read this book for a long time. It appears that now is the time! I am from Greensboro, NC and I am a Secular Franciscan who loves reading Henri Nouwen’s books and also the daily reflection.
I read The Return of the Prodigal Son years ago, and I look forward to reading it again with an online community. Thank you for offering such an experience.
Glad to be part of this study. Located in Atlanta, GA.
Hi. This is my first blog discussion and am looking forward to it. I am a mother of 3 grown boys. No grandchildren yet. Retired. Marian Servant of the Eucharist in Baton Rouge, LA. Spiritual Director. Master Gardener.
Love Henri Nouwen! Am excited to study him this Lent.
Thank you for offering this opportunity.
Mary, I see that you are a Spiritual Director. Occasionally I hear of someone who is looking for a SD. How would one go about finding you? I live in Pierre Part, about an hour from Baton Rouge.
I live in Richmond, VA and have never blogged before. I am a Catholic looking for more spirituality. I often question all of the “rules” of the church which has led to my wondering why I stay. Then I remind myself that most organized religions have these “faults” and that the thing I love most about my involvement in church is the sense of community it provides. I am looking forward to establishing a new community with these discussions I have been getting the Nouwen daily emails and look forward to taking this to another level.
Debra, you have clearly articulated my own struggles with the Church. I look forward to reading your insights about the book. To all of you, I am most profoundly grateful for the testament of your lives and your commitment to continued spiritual growth.
Thank you so much for taking us on this journey for this season of lent. I have read “Return of the Prodigal” a handful of times and am continually amazed at the ways the Lord teaches me something new each time. I have been following Henri Nouwen’s works for a number of years now but have never been part of a book discussion so I am greatly looking forward to being enriched on this journey with all of you.
Good afternoon from Daventry England on a cold wet afternoon!
I am about to finish my 3rd year training as a lay reader in the Anglican Church and I am “returning home” to this site after opening the door into the Advent Course on this site last December.
I have loved the work of Henri Nouwen for a long time as it carries the reality of being chosen blessed broken and shared . I am a retired headteacher who has both loved learning at the feet of those like Henri and alongside others rather as the disciples did with our Lord .We have such opportunity in this age of modern technology to gather in the name of the Lord
I have not read the Prodigal but love the picture and those hands on the shoulders of the one who returns home.
In my 70th year I see our “mutual journeying home together ” as full of wonderful opportunities to turn and take steps closer to the mystery of God’s abiding love waiting always in positive anticipation for sight of ech one of us.
Love and prayers
Gilly
I am joining from Dallas, TX.
The first time I’ve read The Return of the Prodigal Son made me to think about the first son’s reflection in me.
I still reflect the combination of the first son and the prodigal son, and if I may add, the servants in the Father’s house. Yet no matter whom I identify with, I know at the end of the day I dwell in God’s shalom.
Reposting my introduction as well – I’m Cathy and I live in Peterborough, Ontario, Canada – I work full time in the retail world but am sensing a call from God to further my work in His ministry of healing. I belong to the Anglican Church and love the contemplative, reflective nature encouraged by Henri Nouwen. I read this book years ago but am looking forward to discovering it in a new way this Lent. Thank you for this opportunity.
Hello. I live in Houston, TX and am a recent empty nester who works part time as a finance manager and volunteers part time with an organization that ministers to the poor. I have read The Return of the Prodigal Son or referred to parts of it several times. I have been both the prodigal son and the older son at different times in my life, but have spent the last few years working very hard at becoming the father. I still have a long way to go 🙂 so I am grateful for the opportunity to participate in this group discussion!
Welcome to each of you, those who have journeyed with us in earlier discussions and those that are joining us for the first time. It is overwhelming to read the heartfelt comments from around the world about how the words of Henri Nouwen in general and, especially, our Lenten selection The Return of the Prodigal Son have touched so many of you. And a special welcome to those of you that may be struggling with illness, loneliness, life transition, or other difficulties in your life at this time. Know that this is a caring and compassionate community and that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
For me personally, Henri Nouwen is a close and trusted friend (although I never actually met him) whose words have comforted and strengthened me in good times and bad and through difficult life transitions. And The Return… remains the book (not just book of Henri’s, but the book) that has had the greatest impact on my life (excluding the Bible, as a library of books). I’m looking forward to sharing this Lenten journey with each of you.
As St. Francis of Assisi would say to those he met along the way, “May the Lord give you peace.”
Ray
Hi Ray,
Thank-you for your warm welcome. Reading the Introduction to the book I am already sensing Henri’s warmth and presence. When I participated in the former book discussion I experienced so much encouragement and strength that I really looked forward to taking part in the Lenton book discussion. Thanks again!
Jo
Thought I’d follow your example Chris and repost my introduction here …
I’m posting from Milan, Italy. This is my first community discussion ever and I’m glad and looking forward to join in.
I’m married, mother of three (11, 9 and almost 4 years old). I’m a Christian Initiation catechist and am currently preparing a group of children for their Confirmation. Being a catechist for me means planting the seed of God’s love in the children’s hearts.
I “discovered” Henri Nouwen more than a year ago but actually got to read “The Return of the Prodigal Son” at the beginning of summer last year at a crucial moment in my life, when I thought I had hit the bottom psychologically and spiritually. As I read through it I felt like new oxygen was being blown into me and the blurred mass that oppressed my mind and heart slowly, gradually dissolved as I became more and more aware of God’s loving embrace. Every now and then some clouds still gather and I know I can turn to Henri for enlightenment.
Actually joining this community is for me a sort of “homecoming” … My spiritual journey started at Niagara Falls in august 1997. I spent three weeks in Toronto doing research for my University thesis on Margaret Laurence’s “A Jest of God” and the day before my flight back to Milan I went to see the Falls. I premise that I was born and raised without any religious education in Holland and I was an atheist at that time, but when I saw the breathtaking natural spectacle of the Falls, I suddenly “knew” that this could not exist by itself, that there had to be a God who created such beauty …. Here for the first time in my life I felt “at home” and I seriously thought of moving to Toronto, which in the end I didn’t do for economical reasons. Since then Toronto has had a special place in my heart and the desire to come back sooner or later has never left me. So now, this community is really like “coming home” to the place where I experienced the First Love of God … even though from a different time zone! But this, I have learned over the years, is another of God’s jests in my life … and I can only thank Him for it!
After quite a painful psychological and spiritual struggle in the first years after Niagara Falls, my spiritual history is one of ups and downs, studded with “milestones” here and there… Last Advent I started reading Henri’s “Discernment” which has brought me to gain a fuller spiritual understanding of being God’s beloved daughter! And now I’m still following that path …
I have been so looking forward to this book study and time for sharing with other”seekers”. I have received the Daily Meditation for some time but stumbled onto the Advent study midway through Advent this past year and so enjoyed reading the posts and their insight. This Lent I wanted to join in the discussion. It is interesting to read that like many of you I recently retired from my professional career and am working part-time at my church in ministry. As someone else posted I too can relate to all three in the story of the Prodigal Son. I think that comes from living for 61 years and perhaps that is the gift of aging.
I live in North Carolina and recently retired from teaching middle school for 25 years! I have read many of Henri’s books and am on a “new journey” in life with my Savior and Shepherd! My life has been full of joys and sorrows, but through it all I have always had the peace of knowing that He is with me always! I am so in need of this experience!
Deb G
Hello everyone. Writing from Singapore. Have read the book many years ago, but happy to read it again at this Lenten season. Deeply aware that I am all 3… the younger son, the older son, and the Father, waiting for the return of a loved one. Each time I think of the parable of the Prodigal Son I am amazed by the unconditional love of God for me. How I long to love as He does, and how I wish to comfort the heart of God that must ache for all who reject His love. God bless you all on your journeys, I am privileged to journey with you.
I have read this wonderful book once and look forward to reading it with a group. I have never participated in a blog before so hope I can figure it out.
I live in Ottawa and I’m retired. I fill my days with volunteering at the church helping with a seniors card group. I’m also very involved with the Long Term Care home where my 93 year old mother lives. I also do pastoral care visits there for the church.
I look forward to delving deeper into this book than I was able to do on my own.
Looking forward to getting to work.
GOD Bless.
CAROL
I am from the beautiful west coast of Florida, Bradenton, to be exact. I have lived here for 72 1/2 years – since I was six months old. I have been married for 48 years and have two daughters, one born in 1968 and the younger adopted about three years later. I returned to college when I was 37 to get a teaching degree; my major was humanities education, so I am particularly looking forward to reading of the impact of a great work of art on Nouwen’s spiritual journey. I taught English and Humanities for 8 years; during that time I earned a master’s degree in Library Science so I spent the last 20 years of my career being the director of a high school library (media center).To give you a sample of how I spend my time and energy, yesterday I sat with my husband as he went through 8 1/2 hours of chemotherapy infusion for his second occurrence of CLL; today I left home around noon, drove an hour north to pick up two of my grandchildren and one of their friends to bring back here to my church’s youth group, then drove them back home tonight after church. I won’t go into any of the rest of my family life other than to say I sometimes feel I am living out a poorly written soap opera; reading, especially spiritual books, is one of my life-lines.
I became acquainted with the writing of Henri Nouwen through the Renovare Institute for Spiritual Formation. I have started this book several times but have never completed reading it – not because I wasn’t thoroughly intrigued by it. In regard to the theme of “homecoming,” I look back at my life and see myself at various times in all three stages – prodigal, elder brother, and father – father in that God keeps giving me people to love, including some “unlovable” family members – I could relate to those of you who shared of struggles with children or others. My path to God has been anything but “straight and narrow.” I am amazed by the Father’s love for me, often expressed by putting just the right person in my path at the perfect time. I spent many, many years trying to find God with my intellect. I used to say that I had read everything that IVP ever published! However, I found God through His love being expressed through those people He put into my life. I am looking forward to traveling this “book journey” with all of you. As I read your entries, I found myself wishing I could talk with many of you more about your lives. I look forward to this time.
Dot,
Your days must be very wearying, but I am inspired by the energy you throw into your service to your family. I pray that you will find peace and rejuvenation in our “book journey” together.
Hi all, I’am new at this. Am familiar with Henri Nouwen and excited to be doing this book The Prodigal Son for Lent. I live in Vancouver, British Columbia and look forward to experiencing a new homecoming this lent.
Willy
Love to join the study.
Hi Everyone,
I live in Ontario, Canada have a wonderful husband and 3 adult sons who bring us new life and joy unspeakable. They were born with Myotonic Muscular Dystrophy so have much to cope with in life. We try to support them in every way possible and encourage them in their faith as they do ours. We are blessed with their personalities that are refreshing and humorous. So much to be grateful for! Their limitations require assistance but they are living independently. Thank God for Christian community where we gain strength through each other. I have been looking forward to this Lent with enthusiasm because of this discussion. I have read the book The Return .. but am eager to read it once again believing I will learn more. So much insight and strength came from the discussion in Advent and I know our family will be blessed during this Lent …thanks Henri! Our oldest son requires assistance daily as he is very weak but we have confidence the Lord will supply all our needs daily. I have been an active member of L’Arche for many years and learned through the core members we are the Beloved. While we give our lives in service we know the little gestures are what counts.
Jo
Jo, thank you for sharing your life. You have inspired me deeply. God bless you.
Thank-you Dot. Myotonic Muscular Dystrophy showed no signs of being present in my husband’s generation or his parents or grandparents so it came as a total surprise as we didn’t know it was in my husband’s genes when our oldest son was diagnosed at the age of 20. He had broken his nose playing hockey and when the surgeon asked him to ‘make a fist’ he was unable to. That’s how we discovered our sons & our path in life. They continued to play hockey as long as they were able to but eventually had to give it up and the same happened with golf. Watching them accept this “Walk” in life was both heartbreaking and inspiring. They studied and completed their U. education even though they knew they would have short careers. They all were forced into retirement at 33. We believe we’re on a Mission and that’s how we live it. The world needs saving and our sons have a big part in helping others find Christ through their sacrifices. That was given to us through the inspiration of others in the early days of big sacrifices. We are helping the Church on the path of Salvation. Thanks for your response, Dot. I used to have a sister-in-law with your name and she was wonderful…you bring back good memories.
GB
Jo
Hello from chilly northern MN. I have participated in and enjoyed past book discussions. I am looking forward to the sharing of thoughts on “The Return of the Prodigal Son “. I read the book several years ago and loved it. Lent is a perfect time to be sharing this book. I am always searching for ways to grow in my faith while on my spiritual journey. I am excited to have this opportunity join others growing in their faith. God Bless!
I’ve never done this before, and I’m looking forward to the discipline of regular comments and interaction. My husband died last year, and I have been more or less numb to my spiritual journey. I need to get moving again…
Vi, I know that you will find sustenance in Henri’s words and support from this online community. You are in my prayers.
Elaine, that means a lot. Thank you!
Wanted to repost my comments on this scroll 2/18/21015
Today we begin. I have looked forward to this day since the turn of the New Year, hearing of the plans of this shared reading. I have read it once before with a dear friend of mine. She is now gone, but not before teaching me about the unconditional love of the Father. I dedicate this Lenten journey to Sylvia and borrow from her strength to be faithful to its readings and post. I’m from eastern North Carolina and have lived in Greenville, NC for twenty plus years. I devote most of my attention and energy to my 13 year old daughter, the baby of our litter of four. My husband travels weekly and faithfully gives his all to our family. Our older children are walking their own paths and I mother from afar. At this time of Lent I find myself welcomed home, relieved of burdens lifted, but not sure where, when, and how my life will be as the homecoming party ends. I come to this post quivering with a seed of faith. The perfect remembrance of what I have left behind calls me back to the known pigpens of my past. Yet I long to know, to see, to feel, and to breathe in all that the Father has for me in the unrevealed tomorrows. For this, I embark on this Lenten Journey.
Hi. My name is Natalie, and I live in Orange County, CA, a few miles from Disneyland. I am a licensed clinical social worker and work for a local county dept of mental health, serving adults with severe and chronic mental illness. I am also a single mother with 2 teenage boys, age 13 & 16. This is my first time participating in an online group here, but I am familiar with several of Henri Nouwen’s books and did a group student of this book many years ago when my faith was rather undeveloped. I am very excited to be connecting with you all now and am anxious to see how we grow together.
Hi Natalie! I am from Orange County as well 🙂 it is my first time in the book study too.
Hello all. I live outside of Orlando, Fl. I am an associate pastor at a Presbyterian church here. I am looking forward to reading this book of Henri Nouwen’s as I have been very blessed by his other books. I share life with my husband Tom, our 4 children ages 16-26 (although only the 16 year old is at home)and 2 dogs. In recent years I have found my faith and love of God renewed through study of a Kingdom Healing course through Jacobs Well located in Wales and now lead a healing course in our church and join others in prayer ministry with those who desire prayer. I am a reformed older brother turned prodigal who is now finding home a place where I struggle to rest in being beloved and accepting the robe, the ring and sandals from our Father.
Hello,
My name is Daniel and I have lived in Japan for the last three years; my wife Melissa and I (both Australian) are Salvation Army Officers (Ministers) in the Tokyo region.
I was excited to see that the book chosen for this discussion was ‘The Return of the Prodigal Son’. I pulled it off my shelf, opened the front cover and discovered – along with a postcard sized reproduction of the cover – an airline boarding pass! The date on the boarding pass reminded me that I had travelled to Japan for the first time eight years ago – and that it was for my honeymoon no less!
In this way, there is for me a sense of ‘homecoming’ as I consider all that has taken place during that eight years – the journey of marriage and of ministry – up to the present day.
I’m looking forward to participating in a new study throughout this season of Lent, trusting that it will be a significant experience for all.
Regards, Daniel
Good evening from Pennsylvania..just outside of Philly I love Henri Nouwen’s work, but am new to this one. What I have read so far has impacted me greatly and I am looking forward to getting further into it and sharing it with you all. I enjoy being the mother of 4 and I would say that i’m probably on the road to “home”
Hello group! Thrilled at your sharing…
I am Bob from Madison North Carolina. Retired and working(part time) at a Prayer Center in Stoneville NC…blessed to have found the Center, Nouwen, and solitude on my never-ending journey! Have read this book, grown from it, and continue to be influenced by each reflection! I am the Son, and the older brother…can I be the father? I’ve read each response, and am blown away by your eagerness to find our ‘homecoming’…may we grow in this time in the desert!
Well, hello my friend. As I was scanning the other reply’s I saw yours. Hope you are well.
Katie Dear…glad you’re here! This will be a great Lenten reflection! See you soon! Shalom…
Hi Bob
There is no place like North Carolina. Funny how Lent and March Madness are the same time. I’m from the eastern side of the state in Greenville but call the entire state my earthly home. Let’s read together.
The Lenten Journey begins – and I am thankful. I live near Lexington KY and work for Hospice of the Bluegrass. I was blessed to be able to do an independent study on Henri Nouwen at Asbury Theological Seminary and loved, loved, loved reading all the books I could get my hands on. I quote Henri at least once a week in my work.
I look forward, along with all of you, to being refreshed in my reading of the Prodigal and taking away new insight and, prayerfully, transformation.
Hello all. I have read The Prodigal Son, along with a number of other Nouwen books. I look forward to joining in on this Lenten journey from the mountains of western Maryland.
Hello to all. Happy for this opportunity to share the reading of Nouwen’s Return of the Prodigal Son within this community! The book is my very favourite.
Ann
Having recently retired, I feel very blessed to have the time to participate in this book study this lenten season. Henri Nouwen’s writing have been so much a part of my faith journey. I look forward to reading this book again; but this time as part of a community,
I’m Lori from Ontario, Canada. I spend much energy on the theology of fundraising, something Henri also wrote about. Return of the Prodigal is my favourite Nouwen book – after being introduced it to it 14 years ago, I’ve lead two studies on it. So much depth!
Like Joni, I feel like I’m called to become more like the Father, yet struggle with being the older brother.
Going to the Hermitage to see the painting is on my bucket list!
Hello everyone, Greetings from Louisiana! I currently work at a university here where the students who are part of the Catholic Student Center are quite an example to me of what it means to follow Jesus. I also sing in the choir at my church. Singing to God touches me in a way that connects me deeply to the Heart of God. I have never read “The Return of the Prodigal Son”. Some close friends have a large painting of the scene that is on the cover of the book in their home and when I see it, I am drawn to it. I think I am the big brother in the earthly home of My Father, seeking the grace to be happy for my little brother and sister who are coming home.
I’m Craig from Kentucky. I dedicate my days to my new found discovery of Eastern Orthodoxy from my Anglican heritage. I’ve been taken with Nouwen’s daily meditations for months and know they will help guide me in this path. I’m reading the book now and I feel like I’m having a spiritual homecoming having found Orthodoxy some months ago. I’m learning new things and thoughts and it’s all a journey of discovery of God.
Hi “Y’all”! My name is Lloyd, and I live in Killen, Alabama ( Muscle Shoals Area for those of you who know music).
I work fulltime; but spend my “energies” as the Ministry Leader for a Celebrate Recovery Group ( Christ center-ed 12 steps for those who have suffered a hurt, developed a habit, or a hang-up) that meets in our local church ( Church of the Nazarene).
I have not read “The Return of the Prodigal Son”, but readily see myself in all 3 roles at some time in my life. In 2008, I was struggling with my spiritual direction and looking for something to ground me. God provided my initial spiritual formation in a weekend experience called “The Walk to Emmaus”. Since then I am intrigued by formal times of Spiritual formation and am looking at this discussion time as another of those times.
In Celebrate Recovery (CR) we often “welcome home” those who are in attendance. For many of the guys I deal with, that homecoming is about finding love, acceptance and affirmation from Our Heavenly Father, and from our “forever family”.
So looking forward to spending this season of Lent studying and learning beside each of you.
Hi! I have been so looking forward to joining this group! I am an American, from Boston area (my thoughts are with you Susan, terrible snow year!) currently living in Germany (9 yrs).
First met Henri in 1971, through his book “Open Hands.” Had the privilege of sharing a Day of Recollection with him in 1980 or 81…awesome blessing!
I work for the Air Force, as a civilian, 32 yrs, hoping for a job in the States and then retirement.
Have read this book at least twice, bit not for several years.
Right now I’m struggling between wanting to be as the Father, but feeling more like the eldest son.
mayGod be with each of us this Lent.
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I am from Troy Michigan, about 15 minutes north of Detroit
2 days a week I work as a psychologist in my private practice. The other days I have the joy of parenting my my son (10 years) and daughter (8years), as well as love on my husband of 13 years. I’ve never read this book. I have been drawn to Nouwen since 2009 when my infant daughter died as I struggle and search for healing and meaning. Homecoming…I want to feel at home in my Father’s arms, to trust that space.
I live in Belper – a small town in Derbyshire, England. Married to Cath and dad to three children; my eldest is on the verge of exams and then off to university – this is part of my journey from always being the Younger Son to begin a new exploration of The Father. I’ve done that in my work as a teacher to some extent previously – however, it’s a different kettle of fish when it’s your own! The Return of the Prodigal Son was my first experience of these online discussions – I have really enjoyed reading, reflecting and occasionally contributing over the last couple of years. I am looking forward to re-reading the book as I seemed to do it so fast last time. It reminded me of a rich meal that I didn’t appreciate fully in my eagerness to devour it! In terms of “homecoming” – I feel, at times, like an errant teenager who uses the house as a place to stop when the going gets tough, but who ventures out to enjoy life without necessarily giving the thought and attention to “home” that I should. As I approach my 50th my perspective changes again – I am looking to live in my “home” and find the comfort therein. I look forward to learning more about myself from Henri’s beautiful writing and from the thoughts and sharing of this community. God bless – Phil
Hello! I am from northeastern Illinois and I am new to this discussion group. I am a long-time pediatrician, wife, mother of 3, and grandmother of 1, with 2 more on the way.
I first became acquainted with Henri Nouwen in the mid-seventies when I was a recent college graduate and strongly considering a vocation as a Trappist nun. God had other plans for me. For many years I was very involved in our parish activities, but slipped away some 10-15 years ago due to disappointment and disenchantment with our parish priests.
I am just now hearing once again God’s call.
I am a recent empty nester as the mother of four and loving the freedom of time! I have been a daily Henri Nouwen meditation follower for the past year and stand in awe of his spiritual intimacy and the ability to share it with others. In the past 18 months I have been exploring theDaily Examen and spiritual exercises of St Ignatius both individually with a director and in a group setting. What a gift to discover both these men at the same time, such inspiration, challenges and peace. I have never done a book reading group online nor a blog, so I am most grateful to our leaders and veterans who will enrich this Lenten experience!
Hello from Hilversum, the town in the Netherlands where Henri Nouwen died in 1996. I happened to meet with the Return of the prodigal son ( I mean the book) during a course in psychosynthesis, many years ago. I work as a psychosynthesis guide with soldiers who experience post deployment problems. This is one of my favourite stories to work with. I remember how the story used to appeal my sense of love and justice when I was a child. Reading it over and over during the years the story is still unfolding its deep spiritual meaning to me. I guess I am,at this point in my life, returning to the house of the Father. I have changed since I left, and am more willing to work in His service. This is the first time I join this online reading community. I am looking forward to meet with all you travellers.
My wife and I reside in Rothesay, New Brunswick, Canada.
The Lord Blessed me with a servant heart, a sense of giving back from what I received throughout my life. This has always been a mystery to me, but I am grateful for it.
I was fortunate to have a career that enabled me to do the things that were important to me which included coaching when our two sons were young, a Scout Master during our sons early teen years, service in our Roman Catholic faith community including Marriage Encounter, Charismatic Renewal, Teen Encounter, youth retreats, men’s retreats, Parish Council, High School-age Catechism, Lay Pastoral Formation Ministry and part of a small dedicated inter-denominational group of men and women, instrumental in establishing the first L’Arche community in New Brunswick. As director of the ‘New Dawn Community (predecessor of the local L’Arche community) Players’ which consisted of developmentally challenged and abled body young and older folks, we presented in mime the narrated story of the Prodical Son many times for various Churches and community groups. It was through L’Arche that I learned of Henri Nouwen’s writings. Oddly enough although I started to read The Return Of The Prodical Son several years ago, I noted from my highlighting and notes, I never got beyond the first section of ‘The Younger Son Leaves’. Such was the busy-ness of my life in those years. I tried to listen to God leading me, but I wonder how often I was just doing?
I hope you pardon this lengthy introduction. Why I am sharing this with you is to inform you where my wife of almost 45 years and I are today. After a lifetime of chosen involvement my wife (whose life ministry was as a Registered Nurse nursing Alzheimer’s and Dementia residents) and I retired October 2013 with the intention of travelling and doing all the things we didn’t do during our working years. This may sound selfish to some, but Mare and I saw this time in our lives as designated for ourselves and time with our sons and their spouses and our grandchildren. We had intended to spend the winter months in Venice, Florida, USA as we did for the first time last winter. On January 27, 2015 I was diagnosed with cancer in the bone. We immediately returned home and we are currently waiting for the determination of the specific cancer from which the treatment will be determined.
So today as I reflected on ‘homecoming’ I feel as though I am at a crossroad in my life.
Although I think I know the lord loves me unconditionally, the ‘homecoming’ I most desire is that with Mary Lou, my wife, and our sons and their families, the family gatherings with our extended family, the gathering with various friends and with the communities that have been important parts of my life, rather than the homecoming the Lord has prepared for me. Anyway that is where I am right now in this new part of my life journey, as I enter this Lenten journey with all of you, another first for me.
Your honesty is beautiful. What a blessing to be in the book study with you.
Dear Bob and Mary Lou,
Thank you for sharing so sincerely. Our faith is strengthened by every form of sharing that we offer each other-part of our Christian journey and knowing the very real presence of God’s love through the Spirit within the body of Christ Love and Prayers to you and yours
I am so looking forward to your insights from this study! Prayers are with you.
Dear Bob,
Thanks a lot for the sharing and will pray for you!
Antonio Mok
Hi Bob,
Bill & I visited the New Dawn Community in the early stages of formation & while I don’t recall people’s names I vividly remember the hospitality we were given. We still get the Newsletter and feel connected to that community.
I enjoyed reading about all of your experiences but especially what you and Mary Lou are facing now. Our prayers are with you.
GB
Jo
I was delighted to discover this opportunity, as I am looking for something special to guide me through the season of Lent. Quite a few years ago I had the privilege of reading the book and was deeply moved by Henri Nouwen’s insight into each person’s heart, particularly that of the Father.
My time is spent helping my husband, who is handicapped and ministering to those who struggle with addition and those who love them. The Prodigal’s story speaks readily to them and the patient love of the Father gives them hope.
This is my calling and I gladly give myself to it, as the Father’s love grows fuller for those who share t!
My physical home is in Connecticut, however my heart’s home is found in my Savior. He is calling to me to come away and draw nearer. Life can distract and pull in many directions. I long to give all my attention to Him once again.
My name is Pat and I split my time between New Mexico and Colorado. I retired six years ago and spend my time enjoying my family, including two beautiful grandchildren who bring me much joy. I volunteered in youth programs in our church community for over 20 years and am now searching for another way to share my God-given talents to do God’s work. I have read “The Return of the Prodigal Son” and found it to be enlightening. It opened my eyes to how I could easily have been the prodigal son, the father and the brother at different times in my life. I was awakened to new awarenesses about myself. I have also participated in a women’s spirituality group for many years and have grown tremendously in recognizing God’s unconditional love for me but it has been a hard and painful journey of “letting go” of control and “letting God” be part of my life. I have never participated in a blog, but look forward to continuing to grow spiritually on this Lenten journey with you.
I was first introduced to Henri Nouwen in the early 1980s. There is still no author who speaks so deeply to my soul as him. I reside in Chicago and I am a spiritual director/retreat leader. I look forward to this online journey.
I’m from Michigan, where we seem to be having lots of snow these days! Several years ago I read The Return of the Prodigal Son, but this was before I became a Catholic (5 years ago). I thought this was a good opportunity to read the book again since my perspective has changed on many things – it will be interesting to study Henri Nouwen’s book from fresh eyes. It was an enjoyable read the first time, and I suspect it will be even more so now.
Peace ~
Hello. I live in northeast Massachusetts, am new to Henri Nouen, welcoming the Daily Meditation for the past year. My time and energy is currently directed toward my husband, who is in stage 4 with prostate cancer. I’ve never read the Return, but am most eager to participate. Reason being, I have always had trouble with this parable, as I could never get beyond identifying with the elder son. I look forward to this Lenten journey and wish all of us a good one.
Hi from Cork, Ireland.
First time reading this book – looking forward to it!
Looking forward to both of us studying & reflecting on this book together online and offline bro!
Looking forward to it, from Ireland
I am grateful for and looking forward to participating in this discussion. Already, in reading the comments, I feel the impact Henri’s works have had on others like me. I, too, have had issues of finding home both literally and figuratively over my lifetime and am anxious to read Henri Nouwen’s and other’s thoughts on homecoming.
The first Nouwen book I read was “Life of the Beloved” and I very fortuitously found this blog and the discussion of that book at the time I was reading it. I can say that “Life of the Beloved” is one book that had a huge influence on moving me forward along a more God-centered path. The discussion on this blog with so many other seekers helped me along that path with a greater depth of understanding had I only read the book on my own.
I’ve participated in every other book discussion offered here since then and have gained much by sometimes simply quietly listening to the wisdom of others and sometimes working through my own thoughts by sharing them within this safe and welcoming environment.
One of my favorite Psalm verses is 32:8 (NJB translation):
“I shall instruct you and teach you the way to go;
I shall not take my eyes off you.”
I will hold that in my heart as we travel together here on this Lenten journey.
I am Dottie from Ocean County, NJ. I am really spotty about opening my emails, but today, Ash Wednesday, I had to take a look at this site. Henri Nouwen became a friend across time and space after I read The Inner Voice of Love and then Return of the Prodigal Son, two books that became important signposts on my spiritual journey. This stumbling back to Henri’s website today strikes me as a happy accident so I can revisit this part of the journey to bear new fruit.
I am a mother of four teenage/young adults, a high school math teacher, and a human who desperately needs to feel more like a child of God than a stressful product of my packed life. Eight months ago, I found the blessing of a United Methodist church (The Gathering) in urban St Louis. I feel challenged by their message, yet lack the energy to follow through on the many ways that I am inspired while there. Lent used to mean so much to me as a life-long Catholic (before my divorce four years ago). I recently starting reading the blog Zen Habits, and wouldn’t you know it – He wrote about Henri Nouwen yesterday, which led me to find this blog. Bought my book immediately, and feel a real commitment to the journey of this book study and all that it may hold.
Hi I’m Linda. I just moved from Chicago IL to Green Bay WI. I grew up in New Hampshire and still have many East Coast friends and family there. I am ordained in the Evangelical Covenant Church but have left official parish ministry. I work part-time as a book keeper for veterinary hospital in Brookfield, IL. Yes, I telecommute! When I was in Chicago I also worked for the Coalition to Save Our Mental Health Centers as Faith Leaders Outreach Coordinator. My husband Steve and I will celebrate 25 years of marriage on February 24th. We have no children (by choice) which given our physical status is a good thing. I have Lupus and my husband has had 3 back surgeries in the last year or so. We are also experiencing financial hardship which makes life quite interesting. I have loved Henri Nouwen for a long time but have never read this particular book. Out of Solitude was my first interaction with HN and it was profound. I am very much looking forward to this devotional study. I have not yet found a church community and have been feeling quite isolated and lonely which is to be expected given all that we’ve been through in the last year. So excited to have found this site thanks to a friend who posted it on Facebook.
You will love Green Bay, but please consider to converting to the area’s second religion, Packer football!
Good Afternoon. I’m in Duluth GA. serving a United Methodist Congregation as an associate pastor. I’ve used this book twice here, once as a 6-week Study and once as a sermon series in the summer. Each time it was meaningful to me and to others. I can see how we fill each of these roles at different times in our life. Sometimes we are in more than one role in the same day. Right now on Ash Wednesday I feel like the Father, joyous at the return of those children who have been far away but now desire to come home. Only last night I spoke with a young man who is angry and bitter about life’s circumstances and like the older son sees himself as the one giving everything while not receiving his due. My prayer is that during the Lenten journey he too will see how God is working.
I’m looking forward to this journey for myself. Thank You,
Hi everyone. I’m Pam from the Houston, Texas area. I am an on again off again empty- nester, sharing my home with my husband of 33 years. We have 2 young adult sons. I am an active member of my home United Methodist church. I am an avid reader and came across “The Return of the Prodigal Son” after finding Henri Nouwen’s writings during a bible study several years ago.
I absolutely loved this book. In my excitement, I became quite a nuisance to my friends and family. I just wanted everyone to share in my experience. That is one of the reasons I am looking forward to sharing it with this online group.
It has been my experience that revisiting books over time can lead to renewed and deeper understanding. Since I see my whole life as a “homecoming” I look forward to what God has in mind for me this time with the message in “The Return of the Prodigal Son.” Look forward to sharing this experience with y’all. Thank you for providing this opportunity.
I am so grateful to be returning for another book discussion Being retired, I am able to read every post carefully and think about how our very different paths are joined here “as one” in our faith journey. My children are grown and, at this time in my life, they have distanced themselves from me. I do not know what the issues are that precipitated their decision. The estrangement weighs heavy on my heart. In this book study, I hope to draw closer to God, to replace this emptiness with faith, to let go of any defensive attitude about my hurts and to be ready “with open arms” for their return someday. This topic and book are very timely for me. I have a lot of growing to do, with your help and God’s grace.
Hi everyone! I’m Paula and I live in the Greater Toronto area. Two years ago, when I was teaching Grade 6, I came across Rembrandt’s painting and a short blurb about Henri Nouwen’s book in our Religion textbook. At the time, I focused our class discussion on the parable of the Prodigal Son since I had no prior knowledge of the painting nor the book. I started reading the book about a week ago because, well, I have Grade 6 again this year and I know that page is coming up. My interest in learning more about the author led me to this site. I LOVE book discussions, so I’m thrilled to have found this blog. As for my personal ‘homecoming’, I struggle with the acceptance of God’s forgiveness for past sins and the worthiness of being ‘welcomed’ home. Intellectually, I get it, but still working on spiritual healing.
On a half-year leave from my job. Currently in central California but will be going home to Denver in a month. Only discovered Nouwen’s writing a month ago and am blown away by his honest, insightful words. The theme of homecoming/home is very relevant in my life in many ways right now. Never read this book before, so am looking forward to it!
Good morning! I live in Solana Beach , California… I look forward to this Lenten journey. I have owned this book for years .. it has moved with me several times under various stressful circumstances… and have yet to actually finish it!
This study is just the thing to encourage completion.
I’m a teacher at a local Catholic School and attend a home church that is Bible based..
my journey with God is one of questions and of commitment even when I question.
Good Day,
I live in the Ottawa Valley in Ontario.
Like another person wrote, Henri Nouwen is my “go to.” I met Henri through his writings and L’Arche in my early 20’s and he has impacted me greatly.
I have read The Return of the Prodigal Son and am looking forward to being part of this online discussion, which is a first for me.
I continue to see myself in the younger and the elder son, but by grace, like all of us, am striving to be more like our Father.
I live in the San Diego area.
I am a Spiritual Director.
I am excited to join this Lenten study.
I have read this book before and found it to be very impactful.
I’m sure going through it a second time with this group will help integrate it more fully in my heart and life.
Thank you.
I live with my husband and two daughters in British Columbia. Although I work part time, the majority of my time is caring for our youngest daughter who has disabilities.
I have not read “The Return of the Prodigal Son” and am looking forward to this discussion.
Hello from near Coldwater in Ontario Canada. Right now with the frigid winter temps and snow, “homecoming” is very attractive…. Henri has been a spiritual mentor for many years . This story has always intrigued me. It has been a while since I have participated a Nouwen discussion but look forward to curling up and reading this book again. Yes, I love to pencil in comments but will use my marked-up copy and compare insights from previous readings..My personal history includes 45 years in the health care field ,now retired; happily married for 45 years, mother to two grown children scattered to British Columbia and Sri Lanka, Nana Judy to my first grandchild Rosa now 2. My spiritual journey is life-long and I look forward to this enthusiastic group as we study THIS fascinating writing of Henri .
SHALOM
Judy
I live in Baton Rouge, LA. I am finishing this summer a Masters in Spiritual Formation at Asbury Theological Seminary. In the fall, I will begin certification as a Spiritual Director. I have read the book, even so, I look forward to our discussion.
Blessings,
Nancy
Good Morning, from La ville de Québec,
We’re very happy and grateful to be joining this book discussion group, and we’re looking forward to reading this book together with everyone.
I am a retired Canadian Bible Society District Director (Québec Distrit). My wife and I are experienced group facilitator. We’re involved with Canadian Christian Meditation since we’ve retired and actively volunteer in our parish Confirmation and Adult Faith Formation Programs. We will follow this Lent Journey “en français” because this book is available in our mother language.
I truly want to have this Lent be a a very meaningful journey that will bring us closer to the Lord. we are very excited to be studying The Return of the Prodigal Son.
I have read and cherished Nouwen ‘s writings for more than 10 years.
Shalom,
I am an active Catholic from Toronto and think of Henri’s legacy each year that I visit Daybreak. He is my all time favourite spiritual writer and has touched my life deeply.
His daily snippets of wisdom on the daily blog often inspire me for the day. I thought I knew the meaning of the Prodigal Son, but each time I read it or hear it, I learn something new. I would also recommend a book by Timothy Keller called THE PRODIGAL GOD, for further insights. Looking forward to joining the discussion.
I am writing to you from Fairfield county in Connecticut. I have not read the book, but am looking forward to read it, discover, and accept my “nothingness” in order to be able to walk, see and act on God’s loving care. I dedicate most of my energy to discern God’s will for me.
Good Morning. I first encountered the painting in my Seminary advisor’s office. From then, found the book and have shared and used the book an its themes in my ministry context. it’s particularly poignant as I was the son back in 2012, and while some are ready for the welcome home feast, the “father” is being held at bay and the “son” is angry. The church, of all entities, can be very unforgiving.
Good evening from Ireland! I live in Co. Cork in Ireland about 30 minutes drive from Cork City in a fairly rural location and I am married with two teenage children.
I only encountered the Prodigal Son book a few weeks ago as I was preparing a sermon on the parable and was introduced to Henri Nouwen through Tim Seller’s book Prodigal God and I became intrigued and challenged and realised that sometimes I am like the Elder brother.
As a Podiatrist I spend a lot of time listening to patients on a one to one basis and I often find myself in counsellor’s role because as well as their foot problems, my patients also share their griefs, problems and life issues. Through church God also seems to send young men my way who I have the privilege of encouraging and providing with some pastoral support. My widowed mother also needs a lot of emotional support and I feel that although I enjoy helping others, I am hoping that this Lent journey will be a time for me to receive and hear from God personally as well as giving to others.
I am from a Protestant / Evangelical / Charismatic background and Lent has never held much meaning for me, but last year I felt God calling me after many years of attending independent charismatic churches to move to an Anglican church which would not be my background and although it was really moving out of the spiritual box for me, I was amazed at the peace I experienced. This change has also been accompanied by a great sense that God is calling me back to Christian meditative prayer and reflection – things I used to practice when I first became a Christian at 16. I believe God is going to speak to me as I meditate on this book and that Lent will be a meaningful time spiritually this year and I am looking forward to the journey! In March I will also be walking for a week on the Camino de Santiago and I know this will give me valuable space to reflect on the book and pray.
Beannachtaí (blessings in Irish)
I envy you that pilgrimage. Enjoy your Camino my brother.
Maybe someday…
Stuart
Stuart,
You really should find the time to walk the Camino some time – I recommend it! I walked the first section last September just after my Dad passed away and it was one of the most amazing experiences of my life and a time when everything seemed to literally slow down to walking pace so that I had time reflect and hear from God and enjoy the immediacy of everyday life instead of being governed by the tyranny of busy-ness.
I also met two 70 year old guys from San Diego walking the Camino – if they can do it, so can you 😉
Michael
Michael,
Thank you for the encouragement! I’ll know when the time is right. Right now I’m almost beside myself busy. Several ministries and two teenage boys keep me moving.
Thanks you again,
Stuart
Good Morning and Joy of meeting to you Ray and Brynn and all!
My name is Stuart Dimock. I live with my wife and two boys in Southern California. My work is in the ultra-high purity chemical industry. It sounds esoteric, but to put it in human terms I help produce the raw materials that make the cell phone in your pocket and the computer on your desktop a reality.
I have never read The Return of The Prodigal Son before, but I am very familiar with Henri’s work and teaching through Life of the Beloved, The Wounded Healer and several others. I am so looking forward to this study over the lenten season.
For the last two years I have been actively pursuing Belovedness. This is something Henri experienced profoundly. I hope to find fellow pilgrims in this study that can help point the way. It feels like pilgrimage and I am making the most of it.
Greetings!
Stuart
I’m Vickie from Batavia, Illinois. I’ve been a software developer and tester at a large telecommunications company for nearly 35 years (I started there 9 days after our wedding – it was a busy summer). I became Catholic in 1982, and made lifetime profession as a Secular Franciscan in 1985.
The Return of the Prodigal Son is one of my favorite spiritual books. I shared it with my mother, who was not Catholic, and she had a little trouble getting started with it, but she persevered and came to understand why it was so signifcant to me:).
Thinking about the spiritual journey in the context of homecoming, I think I’ve become too accustomed to “home” and somewhat take it for granted. Time to come home again!
Thank you for doing this. I live in New York City. I was given a copy of Prodigal Son by my dear friend Eileen three years ago, and I was intimidated by it, and set it aside for nearly a year. When I picked it up again, I was immediately amazed at how relevant and inspiring the work is. I read it hungrily and got a lot of good guidance out of it, but have often craved a teacher/guide to help me better understand it. (Your advice on getting a clean copy is well spoken – mine is full of now indecipherable notes!) Voila! Eileen once again comes through and sends me the link: Here you are on Ash Wednesday. Thank you and I look forward to re-reading it together and to a great sharing.
Thank you for inviting me to be part of this Lenten journey.
Gratefully,
Joan
Hi, I live near the coast of Maine and we’re currently buried in snow. I grew up in a rather dysfunctional Christian home with skewed teachings, but I got to know God when I was 27. Twenty years later, I’ve been following and learning. I am married and have three grown children, and I work at a Christian pregnancy care center. We attend a Baptist church (unusually liberal) but I don’t like to admit that. 🙂 I read The Return of the Prodigal Son last month and found it to be life changing. I so look forward to delving deeper into it and joining others in this adventure. God bless!
Hello, good morning! I’m very happy and grateful to be joining this book discussion group, and I’m looking forward to reading this book together with everyone. I live in the snow-bound Boston, MA USA area. I began reading “The Return of the Prodigal Son” some time ago, but never finished it, but I have always found Henri Nouwen’s books to be transforming, and expect that this one will be as well. The biblical parable of the prodigal son has long fascinated me. I still remember when, as a young teenager, I first understood the different levels of the parable. I was so excited to actually “get it.” But I know that Henri Nouwen will open my heart and mind to even deeper understanding. As far as “homecoming,” I’m like the prodigal son, only just realizing that some sort of homecoming might be possible. I’ve kept my distance from God at times, not sure of what I believed. I must say that Henri Nouwen’s books have been an anchor for me, keeping me grounded and opening my sometimes hardened heart. I am truly looking forward to reading this book and learning from it and from everyone in the group. Thank you very much.
I am a retired United Methodist pastor living in middle Tennessee near Nashville. I do not recall reading this book although I have read many of his books. Because of a physical disability, I am frustrated in my ability to live out my call. I serve in a local congregation through committee work with the prison ministry team and occasionally teach a Sunday school class.
To me, homecoming is finding your call and living it out in service to God. It is a feeling of wholeness that brings peace and contentment to the soul. It is love embodied.
Don, thank you for your last paragraph. Lately I have been praying about finding my call and living it out in service to God. I am getting past huge disappointments in myself and striving to move on, though often concerned about how much I am influenced by a need for approval and the kudos from the outside world. Looking forward to sharing the journey.
Hi. I live in North Wales . Soon turning 70 and now down to 4 days a week. I was part of our church leadership for 15 years and 5 yrs ago handed on to younger folk. ( independent evangelical charismatic non-conformist mix!) . I was recently given a ‘book of hours’ from Henri Nouwen and found it spoke to me many times of how much what I am doing is a search for the approval of others from others. And like you Dottie / Don, looking for the next stage of my / our call which others have been speaking into our lives. I don’t know that I will be with you everyday but I am looking forward to joining the search and pilgrimage as I am able.
Don,
I love your last paragraph too – it is so true and has got me thinking about my own call – thanks!
I live in the Nashville, TN area, retired. I have read this book before. One of my favorites. It’s interesting that when I first read the book, I actually could only identify with the son who stayed behind. I am eager to delve more deeply into this book and to look deeper into myself. Although I don’t think that will be an easy thing to do. So I don’t know.
Hi Everyone! Greetings from New Jersey! I’m greatly looking forward to this Lenten Journey with this group as we read and discuss the “Return of the Prodigal Son”. I’ve read it several times and it’s one of my favorites. I truly want to have this Lent be a a very meaningful journey that will bring me closer to the Lord. I find myself continually tempted by the worldly voices that speak about prestige, success, pleasure, power, and influence. That’s my ongoing struggle… So for me, I really want every day… no, every moment… to be that homecoming!
Looking forward to reading your comments and insights.
Blessings to all!
Kathy
This is a ‘go to’ book for me both personally and in my ministry. Spend Lent with it every year and keep a picture on my desk. Looking forward to doing something I’ve not done before, an online discussion.
Hi from Western Australia
I’m retired and recently moved here from New Zealand with my husband to live near our two beautiful little grandchildren. We are loving every moment we share these special treasures.
I have read The Return of the Prodigal twice and each time gained an increased depth of belief in the reality of The Father’s love and His desire for even me.
Using the analogy of homecoming, I’m still a way off being constantly aware of being in His presence.
Hi Robyn,
I’m living in Japan at present and before that Victoria, Australia for a number of years however I am from a small town in Western Australia called Waroona (in the Southwest of the state) so I was interested to see someone else from WA taking part in the discussion group. Trusting that it will be a significant experience for you this Lent. Regards, Daniel
Hello!
I’m Hector Andres, in my sixties, from Argentina and with expectance in participating of this group.
“The return of the prodigal son” came to me, aprox 20 years ago and I read it three times, being each of it of great benefit for me.
Where am I in my journey with God?…mmm… to be honest, I very frequently see myself out of the way / the road, but deeply feeling inside me all the time God’s love patience and company.
God bless you, today and ever, in this wonderful job you are doing!
(Sorry for my mistakes, but English is not one of my best skills… ja ja ja)
I am a Lutheran deaconess consecrated in 2012 after retiring from 30 years with the federal courts in Northwest Indiana, where I have lived my entire life. I had a desire to be involved in public ministry in the context of community, and began my deaconess studies part time during my at few years with the courts.
I work part-time in my parish visiting the home bound and hospitalized. I am also involved in justice work, women’s ministries and ministry to women impacted by incarceration.
I have read and been enriched by Nouwen’s works for over 20 years. I have read The Return. . .and was enthralled with the depth of meaning he found in the painting, and how it illuminated the parable in a deeper way.
Looking forward to our time together!
Nancy
Hi from Sarasota, Florida-
I read The Prodigal Son many years ago, and must have given away my copy. I’m ready to begin to reread a new copy! Henri Nowen’s spirituality spoke to me many years ago- his great vulnerability and humility inspired me greatly. I will never forget the day I heard of his death on NPR as I was pulling into the parking lot to visit my mother at a facility for Alzheimer’s patients. His compassion for people with mental challenges helped me deal with the pain of my mother’s illness.
Hi Candace,
While I had shared with Henri on retreats it was always a pleasure seeing him doing something – speaking – interacting with others. He spoke at the old General Hospital assisting those who were caring for the dying. He was accompanied by a friend from L’Arche and as usual gave all of us something to think about. After he finished his talk it seemed as if most of the people surrounded him wanting some of his time but he had spied me close to the back of the room and headed right over to speak with me. We laughed and reminisced about different retreats we experienced together. Thanks for bringing back that memory. Jo
I am a consecrated Lutheran deaconess from Northwest Indiana. In my prior work life, I spent 30 years with the federal courts. I now work part-time in our congregation visiting the home bound and the hospitalized. I also work as a volunteer in social justice and in ministry to women impacted by the incarceration of a family member or friend.
I have read and cherished Nouwen ‘s writings for more than 20 years. I have read The Return. . .once before and was struck by the description of the father’s hands, among many other things.
I look forward to a rich Lenten season
Hello my name is Ivette and this is my first time participating in one of your discussions and reading this book. I’m looking forward to being part of this group and get to share about God’s awesome love for us . I’m originally from south Florida but living presently in Alabama due to my husband’s military career. I believe I’m very much at home with the Lord at this time not so much because I’m such a spiritual giant but because I’m both broken spiritually and physically. After many losses including my health I’m aware of my need for the prodigal’s Father’s love. God bless !
I live in Birmingham AL
I am an Organization Health Consultant and Coach. The name is my company is Magis Leadership Coaching & Consulting. I came to this work after a career with a Fortune 100 company, full time motherhood, teaching preschool land years of discernment . It is my gift, talent, and treasure.
I read the book several years ago and look forward to reading again
This is the first time reading The Prodigal Son. I’m in formation to become a spiritual director and belong to an active Stephens Ministry in my church community. I live in Iowa. I’m looking forward to new insights, healing, and growth this Lenten season. May all of you continue to become closer to our Lord. Peace.
Good morning,
I am from Dearborn, Michigan, less than a mile from Detroit, Michigan. I work part time and dedicate the other hours to raising four daughters with ages ranging from 2 to 15. I read The Return of the Prodical Son a few years ago. The story was always something I thought about at different times being brought up in a Lutheran church my whole life. When I read Henri’s book though it was like my eyes were opened to such a deeper level of the Father’s love. With children growing and schedules becoming busier, I look forward with anticipation to another opening of my heart to come home to my Father. Lindsay.
I first became aware of Henri Nouwen through a Lenten book study of “Can You Drink the Cup?” about 15 years ago; I have loved his poignant and insightful writings ever since. I have read “The Return of the Prodigal Son” before, but not “studied” it; I look forward to doing so this Lenten season as my 23-year old son has gotten himself into trouble and is serving time in prison. I am a lawyer and do not in any way condone my son’s behavior, but at the same time, I will never apologize for continuing to love and support him, even under these dire circumstances. I am hopeful that Nouwen’s reflections on God’s supreme story of unconditional love and forgiveness will help me come to terms with my own personal analogous circumstances.
Mr. Rogg,
I am so sorry for what you are going through , I am going through a similar situation. My 25 year old son is incacerated as well and I struggle with providing him with unconditional love but not being in denial of his actions . May we both find some answers with this study .
Ivette
Ivette: It’s great to “meet you” in this forum; maybe we can connect offline somehow and support and encourage each other in more detail. In the meantime, let’s use the study for this purpose; I hope and will pray for your son as well as mine. TTYS. JTR
Jeffrey,
Thank you for your prayers . I really appreciate them. Maybe we can email each other . My email is ivettecapp@gmail.com. Hoping this lent season will bring us healing.
Ivette
I also have a family member incarcerated.
It has been — and continues to be — a journey in learning about
love and forgiveness. I am hoping this study will help me in my healing
with my anger — my anger for the collateral damage his poor choices placed upon the rest of the family.
Hi to Everyone,
I currently reside is St Louis Mo.
I discovered Nouwen about 8 years ago, and became an instant fan.
Having lived in 7 states, “home” is a relevant theme in my life.
I have not read Prodigal Son so am looking forward to this journey.
My days and life are filled with part time work, travel, children in Denver and Florida, family in various other states….first grandchild due in August.
I desire to have a more intimate connection with God, where I no longer see him ” out there somewhere” but in my heart and soul.
I have been so looking forward to a discussion group on my favorite book by Henri Nouwen. The book was pure revelation to me: first, because I have never read such a profound and meditative analysis of a work of art and the Gospel story which inspired it and second, because I had too often approached the story from the perspective of the righteous older son looking for his due. Taking a more expansive and generous look at the roles of the younger son and the father transformed my thinking. I can’t wait for the new insights that will come from sharing the book with this perceptive and spiritual group of Nouwen readers.
My recent semi-retirement has afforded more time to discern the best way for me to journey home to God. For now, I am combining a part-time schedule of substitute teaching with a commitment to direct service to the poor as well as service learning work with youth. I love the notion of “homecoming” with all its connotations of intimacy, acceptance, family, love, and belonging. It comes with the reassurance that if I have not yet rightly “discerned” the path God has chosen for me, He will nudge me in the right direction.
Thanks once again, Brynn and Ray, for offering this opportunity.
Looking forward to this new experience with Henri Nouwen.