Nov 18 – 21: Advent 2015 Introductions

Reading:  Introduction (xxi to xix).

While you can skip the introduction to many books, you are encouraged to read and reflect on this one to understand Henri’s journey and how this book came to be.   Note: you can find the link to the reading schedule in the black navigation bar, which is located directly below the photo on the top of this page.

A very warm welcome to each of you!  You will find here, in the weeks ahead, a caring community of people who encourage each other in their desire after the heart of God.  Henri Nouwen is our guide, as we study his books and legacy.  We as facilitators do our best to make the space for this community to form, and it is truly each of you that actually creates it.  If you’ve joined us before you’ll know how incredible these times are.  If this is your first time – welcome!

This Advent we will open up the pages of Henri’s “The Inner Voice of Love.”  As you likely know already, this book is composed of journal entries written by Henri during one of the most difficult times in his life.  Henri shows us how he was honest with himself and with God about the pain he was feeling, but he also shows us how he chose to journey through the anguish to freedom.  We can follow his example as he turns his eyes upon Jesus, and therefore leads us to a place of hope and new life.  This book is equally for those who are in a time of deep anguish and for those who are in a time of peace and joy, and want to be reminded of practical ways to keep their eyes on our Saviour.

Before we jump in, it is always helpful to provide some information on how this online discussion flows.  Each Sunday you will discover a new “post,” indicated by the bold title, on the blog’s Home page. This post will have discussion questions based around the week’s readings. It works best if you always add any new comment to the newest post, even if you are referring to an earlier post. That way, everyone will see your comment. After you submit a comment, either Will, Ray or Brynn need to “approve” it, so it may take a few hours before it actually appears on the blog page.  The instructions on how to submit and reply to comments are also included at the bottom of the reading schedule.  If you have any further questions about how the blog works, please feel free to ask.

After that long introduction, we would love to hear from you!

Please introduce yourself.  You may choose to share:
a) Your general geographic location
b) To whom or what you dedicate your days or energy, and why
c) Whether or not you’ve read The Inner Voice of Love before, and if so, how it was significant to you at that time
d) What you hope to experience during this Advent discussion

We very much look forward to hearing from each of you!

In gratitude,

Ray and Brynn

RAY GLENNON: Ray actively volunteers in his parish Confirmation and Adult Faith Formation Programs. He and his wife are members of a Catholic charismatic community. He came to know and trust Henri’s written word in a special way in 2004 when he found The Return of the Prodigal Son for sale after Mass at the cathedral in Singapore at an important point in his life.  If you have any questions for Ray, please contact him at ray.glennon@1972.usna.com and you can follow him on Twitter at twitter.com/@RayGlennon.

BRYNN LAWRENCE: Brynn is a marriage restoration life coach and an experienced group facilitator. She has been helping to preserve Henri’s Legacy for the last six years, through her role as project coordinator of the Nouwen Archive Letter Project and also by facilitating many of our online book discussions. Brynn is  the founder of Abundant Life Coaching. If you have any questions for Brynn, please feel free to contact her through her website.

131 Replies to “Nov 18 – 21: Advent 2015 Introductions”

  1. Hello All,

    Many thanks again for these introductions. I am now “closing” this post.

    We invite you to come on over to the “new” post “Nov 22 – 28: Imperatives 1 through 16.” You can find it by scrolling to the top of this page and clicking on the “Home” button in the black bar. The new post will be right at the top of the page. Click on the title to enter the post, and please add any new comments there. This way, everyone will see your comment.

    See you there!

    Brynn

  2. Greetings, I am happy to be able to participate for the first time. I am from North Carolina. I hope as I make this advent journey I will grow in my prayer life, my love of God and a deeper appreciation of all by brothers and sisters. What a joy to read your posts!
    Peace and all good to each of you.

  3. Hi , have always admired Henri, I am a chaplain at a home for the elderly in Maine , I look forward to our time together. Happy Advent !

  4. Somehow I missed the introduction time frame so I am adding this post late. As a returning participant in the Book Discussions, I am very grateful to be sharing another journey of spiritual reflection with you from my home in Canada.

  5. Hi! I realize I am a bit late to this discussion but am looking forward to the experience. I am a wife, mom to 3 adult children and Grannie to a beautiful granddaughter, one of the greatest gifts I have ever been given! Hearing or reading other people’s stories or thoughts often opens my eyes to where God has been acting in my life. Henri is always a bit challenging for me and already the introduction causes some reticence on my part…do I really want to go there? But, I know in the end I will have learned so much to carry me further on my journey.

  6. I am also late, but might add a country to the international mix. I am an American working in Austria with a mission organization. I have had health challenges in the last years, and look forward to the encouragement of this project. Unfortunately, the book hasn’t yet arrived, but should soon. I have appreciated other books by Nouwen, as well as the daily devotionals.

  7. Hi, I’m Bev Weinhold.

    I missed the introductions on November 18 and your first session on the 22nd. But would love to continue on this journey through Lent. I am living in Louisville but in the midst of moving back home to Boston MA (which is why I missed the introductions). This study is particularly meaningful to me right now as I remember in the “Inner Voice of Love” Henri talks a great deal about returning to our “true home.” Not a place, but an inner peace where the ‘pieces’ and our call come to greater clarity. I’m searching for that.

  8. Hi! I am rather later joining this commentary but have made a start on the Advent readings! I live on the island of Malta. My sister introduced me to Henri some years ago and I ‘ rediscovered’ the beauty of his writing a couple of years ago. I am looking forward to being renewed and refreshed during the course of this Advent.

  9. Hello! I am a bit late…however, I live in Northern Ontario Canada. I am a chaplain 1/2 time in a mental health and general hospital enviroment. It is wonderful work. As well I am a minister 1/2 time in a very samll community – Temagami – an hour north of where I live. The two vocations together keep me grounded!
    I have read Nouwen’s work before – a little. I am looking forward to the intentional time of reflection, study and prayer.

  10. Hi, I am DJ Shoaf, a teacher in Colorado. I look forward to preparing for Advent with the support of this book discussion and all the contributions from each of you.

  11. Hello to all from Tracy in Rhode Island, where I am a writer/editor and partner in my husband’s diverse business enterprises. I’m also newly a caregiver for a family member with long-term illness. All this sounds like way too much for any one person to handle, and it is, but by the grace and strength of God, by getting up and asking, “What do you want me to do today, Lord,” and then doing the day’s work without freaking out about how impossible the future looks, with the support of many prayers, I’m managing to hang in there. I hope to have time to read all your introductions and to contribute to the discussion this week.

  12. My name is Karen, I live in Minnesota. I work at at a bank, sit at a computer researching disputes, but I find many moments to pray…..Jesus, Jesus…..
    This was the first book I read from Henri Nouwen and my favorite it really speaks to me…plus the daily devotional I receive on-line.

  13. Hello from Ohio, where I am a pediatric palliative care chaplain. This book was placed in my hands when I first became a L’arche assistant years ago, and served as a guide for me at that time. I anticipate it will once again, and am grateful to return to it in this way.

  14. Hello! My husband (Joshua) and I reside in
    Northern MN, along Lake Superior. We have 3
    Children (8,7,4) and lead a busy life. I work full
    time as a teacher and Joshua is a small business
    owner roasting coffee. We were both wanting to
    do an advent reading together and Josh found this.
    Our lives are filled with joy, eternal peace, moments
    of pain and brokenness, and a desire to live in the
    newless the Gods grace each and every day. Josh is
    familiar with Henri’s writing, but I have not read
    any of his work before except for an excerpt here and
    there.

  15. Hello All!

    After a few days of wonderful introductions we invite you to come on over to the “new” post “Nov 22 – 28: Imperatives 1 through 16.” You can find it by scrolling to the top of this page and clicking on the “Home” button in the black bar. The new post will be right at the top of the page. Click on the title to enter the post, and please add any new comments (including introductions) there. This way, everyone will see your comment.

    See you there!

    Brynn

  16. I have not ever participated in an online book blog, however, am looking forward to the insight of each of you!
    I grew up in northern Minnesota in a very large family & moved in my early 20’s to Colorado. My husband & I have been married for 32 years & we have a loving daughter, an awesome son-in-law & a sweet grandson with another on the way! My friend, Gail introduced me to this website & I am so truly grateful. I work with clients in the judicial system who struggle with depression and addiction. I have read Henri Nowen’s works over the past couple of decades but have not yet read The Inner Voice of Love. I can relate to the introduction as I reflect on my own spiritual journey. I am so grateful to be here as I search soulfully for answers.
    Your sister in Christ.

  17. This is my first book discussion; I first read ‘The Inner Voice of Love’ about 6 months ago after it was recommended by a priest. I was trying to make sense of a broken Christian friendship, where I had been deeply hurt, but wanted to give and receive forgiveness, reconciling and rebuilding the friendshp. Unfortunately the other person didn’t want to and despite being very important to me on my Christian journey, the person has completely withdrawn from me. I found that I could relate to the book and it has helped me come to terms with what has happened and I recognise that healing will come…and it is … very slowly.
    I live in Yorkshire in the UK with my husband and family and I am a teacher and an Anglican lay Reader.

  18. Hi, I’m a minister in Wales going through the process of retiring on the grounds of ill health – not an easy process. Anyway gives time to do things like join in here.

    Grace and peace,

    Marc

  19. My name is Jan and I live with my husband in Cape Cod, Ma. I have joined in some past discussions and read Henri’s posting to my inbox daily. I am retired but work part time as a social work therapist at a local mental health clinic. I am learning all the time and trusting my vulnerabilities along with those of my clients who struggle with depression and addictions. In the last year I was ‘recruited’ to be a lay minister in our Episcopal church so most Sunday’s I am on the altar and learning more about closeness and intimacy with Jesus. I look forward to reading this book and learning from this group of other folks on this spiritual journey.

  20. Greetings,
    I reside in rural, north central Pennsylvania. My father hailed from Holland, which drew me to Henri Nouwan’s writings. I’ve attempted other online discussions, but haven’t followed through. When the Inner Voice of Love arrived in the mail, I couldn’t put it down. This couldn’t have came into my life at a better time. I’ve been attending the local Catholic church for three years. I am yearning to receive the Eucharist but am prohibited because my husband didn’t get an annulment from a marriage that ended forty years about, twenty years before he met me. The rejection I feel from the church is piercing my heart and depressing me. When I read the book, I no longer felt alone or rejected. I look forward to meditating deeply on Nouwen’s writings and benefiting from other sojourner’s perspectives. St. Francis is my spiritual guide and I’m being drawn to the blessed Mother Mary
    I spend my days in prayer and meditation, caring for the disabled and elderly as a personal care aide (which is my vocation and calling) making goat milk soap that I sell from my home, enjoying walks in the beautiful Allegheny National forest and spending time with my beloved husband and two corgis.
    May God Bless all as we enter the Advent season.

  21. Greetings to each one of you,

    My name is Maureen. I live on beautiful Vancouver Island, in the Canadian province of British Columbia.

    This is my first online discussion, but I am no stranger to Henri Nouwen’s writings. ‘The Inner Voice of Love’ was an instrument of healing for me in a very dark time of depression and loss. I find myself in a similar place now, with the loss of a job and community I loved with all my heart.

    I reached for my well-loved copy of the ‘Inner Voice’ first, then was astonished to find this Advent discussion. I hope to be able to participate in this online community, celebrating God’s faithful love for each one of us. Emmanuel, God with us.

    Sincerely,
    Maureen

  22. Greetings to all on this journey,
    I am John from New Hampshire, soon to be in Arizona for the winter. I dedicate my energy to part-time seasonal work, sports for exercise & striving to be a more prayerful person which is why I am on this journey. One would think that being retired would provide much time for prayer & reflection but I still have to push myself. I have read “The Inner Voice” the minute it was delivered to my Kindle & am looking forward to the second reading with you all. I have benefitted greatly from previous Advent/Lent readings & sharing. It is a great way to push myself into a more prayerful & contemplative life. Your insightful sharings are helpful & God sent & I look forward to this Advent sharing. God bless.

  23. Good morning from Southern California. I live in a community mashed together from several smaller ones between Los Angeles and Palm Springs. No one chooses to live here, unless, of course, it is where you live. An hour away from everywhere they say.

    My days are spent with 30 6 and 7 year olds, learning to read, build community, toss balls, and figuring out how to share what they think, know and feel. If it weren’t for prayer I don’t know how I could navigate the day.

    I’ve never read this book and am looking forward to sharing it with folks. My first sense of it is that it’s a list of rules, and although I understand from the intro how HN wrote it, I wonder how I will read it.

    Certainly full of Advent anticipation to see how this unfolds.

    Peace,
    Amy

  24. Hi all, I am from New Hampshire where I work as a primary provider NP. This is both my vocation as well as my work. I came to know and love Nouwen through my dear mother who found his work so inspiring. Then my cousin Nancy told me about this site. I look forward to reading and sharing thought during this time of preparation.

  25. Hello, my name is Daniel; my wife Melissa and I are Australian and presently serving in Tokyo, Japan as Salvation Army Officers (ministers), we are in our fourth year here. I moved through this book quite quickly recently, knowing that it would be the subject of this year’s Advent discussions and to get an overview of the content however I am looking forward to going through it again at a much more reflective pace as a number of thoughts resonated with my own spirituality and recent experiences.

  26. Greetings from Kentucky. Though born and reared in Kentucky, I have lived and studied and taught in Missouri and Texas and Hong Kong and Shanghai and Beijing and Tokyo and in southwestern Japan. I have felt “at home” wherever I have lived, and now (in my mid-80’s) I am “back home” in Kentucky, where I was born and where my two daughters and their families also live. Previously I took part in the group study of “The Prodigal Son.”

  27. Hi, my name is Chalene. I am from South Africa and a high school teacher. This is my first time and I am really excited to be part of this. A friend introduced me a couple of years ago to Henri Nouwen.

  28. I read Nouwen’s Inner Life of Love about five years ago. It is a wonderful book. I am a senior, divorced with three adult children and five young grandchildren. In an earlier life I was a nun for 20 years. I’m originally from Michigan but have have been in Texas for 44 years. One of my favorite pastimes is writing. I look forward to participating in this discussion. I’m a retired teacher.

  29. I come from the west side of Wisconsin where the Mississippi river corsets the land. I moved with my husband and downsized from the coulees, were we raised three children on 10 acres, to the city of La Crosse a year ago.

    The first year in town was an adjustment and change of life style. I ended my NIA studio, a volunteer position in our county Strong Seniors exercise program and the 50 mile drive (round trip) to town. As my year sabbatical is ending, I have been search for just what Heneri is talking about in this book.
    My son gifted me with the book, in audio form, the day I tried but failed to order it from the HN website. This is my second discussion group on one of Heneri’s books, know this blogging is still new to me, yet I love being with like minds.
    It is awesome how this all came to be. I look forward to journey with all of you …
    Maggie

  30. I have been involved in several of the Henri Nouwen discussion groups over the past few years. Each time a discussion ends, I feel an immediate loss and look forward to the next one. I am thrilled to see that some of the wisest and most compassionate “regulars” on this site have returned, and I look forward to reading the posts of so many new participants. This truly uplifting and rewarding spiritual experience has arrived at a time when I really need it. Thanks again to Ray and Brynn for providing this amazing opportunity.

  31. Hello. I live in Queensland, Australia. This is my first online discussion ever, being somewhat ‘technically challenged’ and this coming year I am determined to challenge myself in this area. I have enjoyed Henri’s writings over the years and thought this would be a good way to start. In fact I am challenging myself in a number of ways in response to a deeper call to simplify my life. I am currently in the process of moving – exchanging the city and its busyness to live in a little cottage in the bush on the shores of a lake and engage more deeply with the natural world and its rhythms. So this is also my advent. I am so looking forward to reading and sharing this book together.

    Blessings

    Kate

  32. Hello. I live in Kansas. The book fell onto my path during a dark time in life, and reading it opened interior doors I didn’t know I had. I decided to revisit the book about 6 weeks ago, so when I saw it was up for discussion, I decided it must be right.

  33. a) Your general geographic location My wife and I live in Christiansburg Va, USA b) To whom or what you dedicate your days or energy, and why First, to Jesus the Christ, Second, my wife, Third, my children, Fourth, making this world a better place to live. c) Whether or not you’ve read The Inner Voice of Love before, and if so, how it was significant to you at that time I have never read this book d) What you hope to experience during this Advent discussion We are doing this book as part of our Adult Sunday School class as an Advent study. I hope each one of us we have a deeper faith and walk with our Lord. I am not sure how many will participate in this blog. I hope and pray many will.

  34. Hello everyone
    I too am looking forward to joining my first on-line book discussion. I have temporarily relocated to Denver from Australia to join my husband who is working here. I am a Life Purpose Coach for women and a Spiritual Director recently graduated from the formation program in Australia. We are without a spiritual community at the moment so it will be lovely to tap into this one for the Advent period. I love the healing and transformative impact of books and of course the insightfulness and courage of their authors. My bookshelf has become a visual testament of my spiritual journey and God’s faithfulness. And there is a significant collection of Henri Nouwen books amongst them. I look forward to being a part of what unfolds for us all.
    Blessings
    Karen

  35. Hello All!!

    Wanting to give you all the warmest of welcomes. We clearly have a wonderful group of people gathering together for this study, and we look forward to getting to know you better in the weeks ahead!

    Of course, new joiners are always welcome, both now and anytime throughout the study.

    Brynn

  36. Hello from the Windy City! I am a life long resident of Chicago and pleased to join in this international Advent book discussion with such tender souls! Looking forward to my first exposure to Henri Nouwen other than just quotes of his laced into many sermons and articles.

  37. This has always been one of my favorite Nouwen books, althogh, as noted, it is from such dark period. I find myself currently struggling with issues similar to those Nowen talks about. I also wonder how it intersects with “Life of the Beloved,” which I am currently reading. I’m pretty sure “Life of the Beloved” was written after “Inner Voice of Love” and reflects the insights of “Inner Voice.”

    1. Yes, according to Henri’s introduction in Inner Voice of Love, He wrote Return of the Prodigal Son after he emerged from this dark time in his life. Prodigal was published first, but Inner Voice was written first. He did not allow Inner Voice to be published until a significant amount of time had passed because it was so personal and he did not at first see how it would help anyone else because he wrote the imperatives to himself. I want to read Prodigal next. I am hearing that it is really good and I think it will also help me in my journey.

  38. Greetings from the Isle of Newfoundland. How amazing to find you all here. And amazing also how, “The Inner Voice of God,” found it’s way to me in the first place. As it happened, I was at an Anglican Advent Retreat last year and noticed a fellow parishioner deeply engrossed in this slim volume of Nouwen’s work. I was intrigued by my friend’s enthusiasm and felt compelled to ask if I might borrow his copy for a time. He agreed on the proviso that it be for ONLY 24 hours as he seldom let it out of his sight. He said Nouwen’s words were a great consolation to him since the death of his beloved wife the year before and made me promise to return it to him promptly the following morning at church.
    I did! Reluctantly! But not before staying up half the night to copy passages and take copious notes. Since then, like many of you, “The Inner Voice of Love” has been such a gift to me and to all those I have shared it with.
    May we be a blessing to one another as we share this advent season together. And may Nouwen’s words console us all and guide us toward Spiritual freedom.
    I look so forward to our online conversations.
    God’s Peace One and All, Doe Harvey

  39. This is my first online book discussion post ever. I am trying something new and look forward to reading and discussing “The Inner Voice of Love…” I live in Minnesota, USA and actually enjoy the winter months with the cold and snow. I have recently retired from ministry as a Methodist minister and find my retirement rather relaxing with time to walk, read, and travel. I have spent most of my life dealing with mental health issues of depression and anxiety but I have been very fortunate to have had many great pastors, counselors and doctors that have allowed me to lead a productive and satisfying life. I am interested in finding out about Henri’s journey into his world of depression and his daily struggles to survive.

  40. Hi Everyone, this is my first online book discussion, too. I’m a college teacher and was very professionally ambitious for a long time, but then was faced with a series of huge challenges and changes in my life that eventually left me feeling very alone. After lots of soul-searching — lots of reading and praying — I returned to the church I was raised in (Episcopal) and at some point I discovered Henri Nouwen, too. A lot of what he’s written has spoken to me, though I also find him challenging, as if he makes himself almost too vulnerable to his readers sometimes; for me, that’s a challenge I think I need, to think about vulnerability — our own personal vulnerability, others’, how it frames our relationships to each other and to God, the vulnerability of our communities, and so on. I’m looking forward to reading this book and joining the discussion.

    1. I too have recently been challenged to learn how to be more vulnerable and transparent. I love that about Henri. I think that is one of the reasons I was drawn to his writing.

  41. Bonjour to all!
    I live in Montréal, Canada and this is my first participation in a book discussion. The Inner Voice of Love was the first book from Henri Nouwen that I read several years ago. Wow! It really spoke to me and Henri’s profound words -yet so simple and accessible- touched my heart…and still do through the daily meditations and many other books I have read. Since The Inner Voice of Love was not available in French at the time I wanted to read it (upon the recommendation of a well advised friend!), the copy I own is English and I will revisit with you all this wonderful book, hoping to deepen my understanding of the Lord’s calling in my life. I am happy to join in this community. Blessings to all.

  42. I live on Long Island in New York and this is my first online study of ANY sort since I am technology challenged! It took me more than several minutes to figure out how to reply in the comment section!
    The first book that I read of Nouwen’s I purchased at a thrift store in Harlan County, Kentucky called “With Open Hands.” I was doing outreach work in one of the poorest counties in the U.S. The paragraph that infiltrated my being described how WE are all capable of anything and everything, both good and not so good, no distinctions. Here I was serving ( or so I thought) the people of Harlan County who some live in such extreme poverty. I felt such solidarity with them as I recognized that we are all the same, this humanity we speak of. I am currently a Service Coordinator for the past 11 years with brain injured adults, appreciating a Nouwen’s book, “Adam.” I am looking forward to reading the “Inner Voice of Love” as I know there will be “nuggets” of transformational insights, should I choose to follow it. Thank you all for your comments as I learn a lot……Mary Ellen

  43. I sent in my introduction before but it wasn’t posted, so I will try again. It said it was waiting for approval Hmmmm I have often been disapproved of in the past. Anyway, simply a 62 year old man from rural Pennsylvania who is hoping through this Advent discussion to have a very spiritual advent and a great spiritual and blessed Christmas.

    So far in reading this book by Henri, I find it very meaningful.

    John

    1. John,
      Welcome. Each of the posts is “moderated” before posting by Brynn, me, or William at the Henri Nouwen Society. Sometimes it can take a few hours (especially in the nighttime hours in the eastern US and Canada. We are blessed that Henri’s work attracts a loving and caring community of believers and seekers and the comments you and the other participants submit are what makes this shared journey enriching for us all. We look forward to your active participation.

      If you or anyone else ever has a question about a comment not being posted in a timely manner, please feel free to contact me at ray.glennon@1972.usna.com.
      Ray

  44. hi am Busi i live in Bulawayo Zimbabwe.am a wife and mother of 2. work as a clearing agent. i have come to love Nouwens works. am still building my library but some are hard to find .i followed the discussions of the prodigal son and was inspired . looking forward to the advent discussion am happy i got the book

  45. From Janet
    I look forward to growing in my spirituality during this Advent season and participating in “The Inner Voice of Love”. Through the years, I have read many books of Henri Nouwen and I enjoy reading my email reflections daily.
    I live in PA, near Pittsburgh, I have been widowed for five years and I have five children, our oldest son is deceased. My grandchildren are a special joy to me.
    I have been involved in the Music Ministry and I serve on Pastoral Council, also, Served on Diocesan Liturgical Commission.
    May we experience God’s blessings during this season. Janet

    1. My name is Sharon and I live in Saint Paul Minnesota. Henri Nouwen is one of my favorite authors. I can’t remember when I was introduced to his books, but every one has touched my life. He is one of the most open, authentic writers who had a very real relationship with our living God. I am a very deep thinker and emotional person. His books have helped me see God not as a distant father, but a loving, comforting father. I have read this book, but now need to find my copy. I look forward to this discussion.

  46. My name is Dana. I live close to Indianapolis, Indiana. I work part time for a church as their Communications Coordinator. The church is going through a very difficult period and we’ve lost most of our ministers. It has been a very dark and painful year. I have had this book for a long time but I’m just now in the right place to read it. I love many of Henri’s books and I am looking forward to going through this with all of you.

    Blessings,
    Dana

  47. Hello from California. I am a school nurse, wife and mother of four grown children, and grandmother of two. Recently I experienced a personal crisis and during that time, God lead me to a Pastor who reached out to me and has been a tremendous help to me in my healing journey. We became friends on Facebook and I noticed that she often posted quotes by someone named Henri Nouwen. I found these quotes to be deeply meaningful to me. I wanted to know who he was, so I researched online and found he had written several books. I wanted to read one, but wasn’t sure which one to choose, so I asked my Pastor friend. She recommended The Inner Voice of Love because she said she thought that it would really speak to me. She was so right! I have read most of Henri’s Imperatives, some of them several times, but have not yet finished reading all of them. A few weeks ago, my Pastor friend forwarded me an e-mail about the Advent Book Study thinking I might be interested. I committed in my heart right away to participating. I have never done an online book study like this before and I am looking forward to seeing what insights I will gain from the responses of others. God has already been touching my heart and helping me heal through reading Henri’s imperatives, but I know that he is not finished with me yet!

  48. This is my first effort joining an on-line discussion of a books as well.
    I am 65+ & still working full time. My husband suffered several health issues in the last 6 years so I moved my business home to be closer to him.
    We have both read a lot of Henri Nouwen but not this book.
    This is an excellent time for me to accompany you on this journey as I’m in the midst of needing to make some life changes. I am somewhat “frozen” & quite fearful so I am ready to approach a faith journey & hopefully hear some direction for my future.
    Prayers & best wishes for us all,
    PAM

    1. Greetings, this is a first for me. I live in Fort Worth, Texas. I am 68 and still work 20-25 hours a week (for which I am very thankful). A friend of mine would send me particular devotions from the Henri Nouwen Society that meant something special to her. On one such occasion, the devotional struck such a deep resonant chord in my heart, I decided that I needed to subscribe myself. I have been thoroughly blessed through each daily devotional I have received over the last month or so. This is my first book to read by Henri Nouwen. I am expectant, but of what I cannot say . . . only that the Lord would visit me in whatever way He sees fit. Thanks be to God for the servants facilitating this Advent community.

  49. Very much looking forward to participating in this online book club. I have been a fan of Nouwen for sometime. He articulates so clearly the human experience. It will be interesting to hear some fresh perspectives on an old favourite – The Inner Voice of Love.

  50. Hi everyone! I am Jackie from San Diego, CA. I am a college campus minister here. I have read many books by Henri Nouwen, but I have never read this one before. I heard about this group through the Henri Nouwen daily meditation emails I receive. I look forward to reading and interacting with you all!

    1. Greetings, My name is Pat and I’m from the twin islands of Trinidad & Tobago in the Caribbean. I am a teacher at a Catholic secondary school. I will be retiring next year so I’m going through a time of transition which I find very challenging. I have read Henri Nouwen’s books before but not this one. A friend on facebook posted something from this site and I was so touched by it that I felt compelled to visit here and I found this online book club. I’m excited to be on this journey with you. God bless!

  51. Hi all. I currently reside with my family in beautiful Dartmouth/Halifax Nova Scotia, Canada – known as ‘the City of Lakes’. I pastor at First Baptist Church, Dartmouth.
    While i have read quite a few of Henri Nouwen’s writings, this is my first introduction to The Inner Voice of Healing; and my first experiance in any book club of any sort really.
    Im looking forward to even more of what I have come to know of the incredible love of God, and the experiance of his ongoing healing.

    Blessings
    Gavin

  52. Peace to all. I am a retired Presbyterian minister committed to learning, reading, and teaching within the stream called Progressive Christianity. This is my first Nouen book discussion. After a long illness and miraculous recovery I have come to see the world with new eyes. This will be my first advent since recovery, so welcoming my walk through advent with Henri Nouen and all of you, as we journey toward the Coming One of Hope.

    1. I am the mother of two, grandmother of one girl. I have walked with Jesus since a child of ten. I live in ‘sunny Alberta’, not always sunny but nice. I learned about Henri when reading the Prodigal Son. I fell in love with his writing because it spoke to my heart. Now I have just finished the book “The Inner Voice of Love”, and it also spoke to my heart. We learn so much by reading such books and then reading the writings and thoughts of others. I am looking forward to this very much as I have just gone through some tough times. Oh yes, I did not mention I have a husband of 47 years who has blessed our home.

      1. This is just a little add on. Today I am thinking of Henri’s “The Inner Voice of Love”…it will be meaningful as always, but this time for me more so. The Inner Voice of Love to me is Christ speaking to our hearts, giving us His love and directions. How blessed we are in this country when I think of our world in chaos. Perhaps the Inner Voice of Love will change our thinking, our desires. For me Jesus is the Lord of my life and without Him where would any of us be. So I await the beginning of the discussion with great hope and desire to write and read the remarks of others. God bless all.

  53. Greetings from Kansas City, Missouri. Sandi and I have been married for 43 years and have been together in vocational ministry for two years longer. Our work has been largely with marginalized urban children and youth in the US, India and several other countries. We are slowing down a bit now and focusing on parish ministry. Though not Roman Catholic, we are lay members of a Catholic Benedictine monastery, where we lead retreats and pray.

    Nouwen has been a great encouragement to me personally through the years. I am grateful for the gift God gave him to be able to speak so clearly to my heart’s needs.

  54. Welcome to each of you – friends from past discussions and those joining us for the first time. What a tremendous response! It is a privilege to be joining with you this Advent on what might be a most difficult, yet rewarding, journey — to find and listen to The Inner Voice of Love. It is a joy that we have Henri to guide us and this wonderful community to support us.

    A hint about posting comments: Most often (like with our Introductions) someone wants to post a “new” comment responding to the blog post for the week. To do so, scroll all the way to the bottom of the comments section and you will see a box indicating “Leave a Reply.” New comments there will be shown at the top of the Comments since they are sorted with the most recent comments on top. In addition, many times participants choose to respond to a specific comment posted by someone else. Under each individual comment you will see the underlined word “Reply.” Clicking on that link will allow you to post a Reply to that specific comment and it will show up immediately beneath that comment in the thread. There is additional information about posting comments included in the Reading Schedule post that can be accessed by clicking on the link in the black ribbon at the top of the blog page.

    If you have any questions about using the blog, please don’t hesitate to contact me at ray.glennon@1972.usna.com.

    May we have a meaningful Advent journey together.
    Ray

  55. “How y’all doing?” As we say here in my native Atlanta, Georgia.

    I am a pastor and church planter in an Midtown Atlanta neighborhood called Morningside. I am married with three school aged daughters. I have read a couple of Henri’s works. Wounded Healer made a lasting impression. I am 45 years old, and have had some very challenging experiences in my career as a missionary and pastor, so I am very interested in the theme of this book.

  56. Warm Greetings! I live in Singapore and Henri Nouwen is very well-liked by many Protestants here and I am one of them. It is not easy to face my inner pains and anguish at this moment and praying for courage to do so in this journey towards the Advent. I am not sure if I make it to post any comments but I will persevere to read on. Thank you and God bless!

  57. I’m a homebuilder in Dallas, Tx and a sheparding elder in a large Presbyterian church here in Dallas. I have read Henri’s daily medation for quite some time and portions of the book. Looking forward to insights to suffering and a greater understanding of God’s love. Thanks for making this available

  58. Hi all, I’m from the southeastern part of the U.S. I am a wife, a mom of two teenage boys, and a newly trained Nia* teacher. The only Nouwen I have read before would be wonderful quotes I would see occasionally. The Holy Spirit led me to this book at this particular time to strengthen me on my journey this year. I am comforted by the fact that Nouwen’s experience closely parallels my own, and his reflections affirm what I am finding to be very true. I am glad to have Nouwen as a guide, a blog to challenge me to articulate my thoughts and feelings, and a community for more exploration and support.
    *Nia is an approach to fitness that integrates body, mind, spiritual, and emotional wellness by combining different forms of dance, martial arts, and healing arts (such as yoga and Feldenkrais). It’s foundation is the Joy of Movement.

    1. Hello Molly, fellow NIA teacher, it was back in 2007 when I received mine. Good to see NIA, something I don’t see much, even as good of a movement as that is. I look forward to hearing move as we go along this journey together.
      Maggie

  59. I currently make my home in Southern California. I desire to journey closer to the heart of the Father. On a long and some times arduous trip fellow travelers can transform the experience for one another. May it be so as we journey together to hear God speak through Henris words.
    I left industry and in academia and begun my doctorate desiring to be better equipped for this next season in service of Him who calls us out of darkness into the light of his love.

  60. Having participated in several online book discussions with this community, I am excited to be here once again. I live in Colorado, work as a healthcare professional, and look forward to spending more time with my husband who has interstitial lung disease. We have 10 grandchildren that live close to us (very blessed) and we seek to teach them about God/Jesus so that they will know, love and serve him. In addition to receiving insights from this online group into a deeper walk with our Lord, I absolutely love the fact that we are a community from all over the world! This speaks to my soul loudly, as I stand in awe of how big and diverse our God is as He loves and ministers to us all. For those who are new to the group, Welcome and be prepared to have God move in your life in a rich and wonderful way! Shalom!

  61. Hello from Washington State. This is my first venture into an online book discussion, though I’ve taken online courses before. I’ve been reading Henri Nouwen for over 30 years and have always found inspiration in his writings. I’m a retired physician, active in the lay leadership of my Episcopal parish. I love photography and hiking and my 5 grandchildren. Life is full of dark times and bright and where I’ve always found God to be the closest is in the dark. I’m looking forward to exploring this book during the season before the light.

  62. Good Day to All,
    I am pleased to join this Advent community where I hope to deepen my relationship with God through prayer, reflection, and conversation with those on a similar journey. There have been many changes in my life in the past few years, some terrible and some wonderful. I am taking this opportunity to simply stop and listen to Him.

    I have not read the book we will be discussing, but am very much looking forward to it. I have been a long-time reader of the daily newsletter and use it to guide my morning prayer almost every day.

    Peace and good wishes,
    Patti

  63. Hello, I’m Kim from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. I bought my first Henri Nouwen books, The Return of the Prodigal Son and Our Greatest Gift from a Protestant bookshop in Singapore about nearly 20 years ago when I was deciding to cross over to the Catholic Church. Since then, his books , especially Life of the Beloved have been an anchor and inspiration for me through many uncertain times. I also love giving his books to family and friends as they are easy to read but very moving.
    This is my first online book discussion and I look forward to reading The Inner Voice of Love which I have only skimmed through briefly. What a wonder present for Advent!

    1. Thanks for joining us. So there are now at least two of us that found The Return of the Prodigal Son in Singapore; for me the book was on sale outside the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd on June 6, 2004. May you find this a blessed journey.
      Ray

  64. It’s the middle of the night here in N. Ca and I cannot sleep. But glad to find this online book discussion I was waiting for off to a start. It is my first.
    Hello to all who have posted here. I am amazed.
    I’ve been reading Henri’s books and blogs for many years. His depth of spirit stuns me and sends me to Jesus. I read and gifted the book we will be exploring over twenty years ago but had no opportunity to dig deeper with others until now. Through this book and you all, I anticipate experiencing more beauty and truth of the vast God to whom I belong.

  65. Greetings everyone! I am living in San Diego. I am married and a full time mom to my 13 year old daughter and my 16 year old son. We moved here several years ago and have yet to find our faith community. I have been feeling adrift. I received the email about this discussion group and here I am. I have felt a little lost spiritually so I thought this would set me back on a path. I look forward to hearing your reflections.

  66. Hi all! My name is Brenda and I am a Canadian who has been living on an island in SE Asia for almost 5 years, loving the people here as Jesus called me to do. I am not involved in any specific projects right now so I am looking for ways to learn more about myself and what it means to be a follower through thick and thin. I haven’t read this book yet so I am hoping to be encouraged and enlightened by it and this community reading it together.

  67. Hi from Brisbane, Australia. I am a 77 year-old (definitely in the second half of life!) whose spiritual gift is contemplative spirituality, and I have dedicated this gift to teaching others contemplative, listening prayer with a variety of approaches to how we can listen to God, and then act on it. I’ve long loved Henri Nouwen, one of my mentors, but have never read The Inner Voice of Love, nor ever participated in an online book blog. I caught up with this a little on the late side, and am still awaiting my copy. At present I am a member of a contemplative book club, “Head to Heart” where we are nearing the end of reading all three of the series edited by Michael J. Christensen and Rebecca J. Laird that contains much of Henri Nouwen’s writing and journey with God. I’m looking forward to adding to the joy with this one!

  68. I was encouraged when reading the introduction noting that Henri Nouwen was sharing about a very difficult time in his life. Encouraged because I feel hope in my feeling of being “stuck”. This past July after working for a financial inst for 20 plus years I had to let go and retire. The challenges of balancing my responsibility as a primary caregiver for my adult daughter with disabilities and aging relatives was more than I could keep up with. I am now trying to find my way having left the work force earlier than planned.

  69. My name is Julia Marks.

    a) I was born and raised on the coast of Maine, and so I feel that I currently live in exile in Virginia. I still post pictures of moose and Indian pudding on my Facebook page.

    b) I am a Christian mystic. I have been since before I attended school. A few years ago, I officially “came out” and began a blog that has some of my writings about being a mystic on it. In addition to that, I am a mystic. I have visions. And I study what I learn in them, and I pray, and I read a lot, and work on varying projects, one of which is creating a website of resources for the Christian healing prayer ministry, called, Finding Solace. Not surprisingly, I dedicate my life to God.

    c) For most of my life, I felt impatient with Nouwen’s writing. It felt so overshadowed by his own emotions. Now that I am an old woman, I find reading him is like walking on a familiar hillside, I recognize the curves and shapes of it all. I’ve never read this particular book. And for that reason, I was interested in reading it here. I wanted to participate in this a few years back, but never could get myself organized in time.

    d) I suppose that I want to experience being prodded into thinking about this (or anything, really) in a different way than I normally do. And I want to witness how others walk his hillsides, and what views they see in their walks.

  70. I am Sheila Varghese a retired medical doctor living in a small town called Manali in the western himalaya of India. I have read many of Henri Nouwens books and they have inspired me a lot in my spiritual journeys. have never taken part in any of his book discussions before and am looking forward to be part of this community this advent. I manage a small retreat center near my home and am hoping to have some reflections at the center during the advent season.

    1. I reside in the Northern California area. This is my first discussion although I have read many Nouwen books and followed this site for some time. I am always fascinated and encouraged in my own struggle to maintain faith when I read the honest trials of Henri Nouwen and this Advent discussion looks to be an opportunity for deepening a connection to the writings of this gifted author – for which I am grateful to the Society and all others on the journey.

    2. Greetings, all, from Central New Jersey in the US. My name is Kate, and I’m new to an online book discussion, but feel very much led (even pulled) to join this one. I have been praying for discernment as to the next steps I should take in my life, and I’m trying to learn to trust the answers when prompted.

      I’m just shy of 52, and have spent almost 30 years now in corporate America, mostly working in IT, and it feels very much like I’m being led to Something Else, or Something More – though I don’t know what that is….

      I discovered Henri Nouwen’s writings when my priest bought his Lenten reflections for us a number of years ago (I’m an Episcopalian). I remember reading a reading, and being stunned by Henri’s understanding of the human condition.

      I receive the daily Nouwen meditations and also those from Richard Rohr, and both very much sustain me. I have not read this particular book, and will confess to a bit of trepidation about its topic. I spent years with depression, and have finally come to a point in my life where I see light and hope – so facing the rawness of Henri’s pain feels … a little scary.

      But at the same time, I’ve read the earlier comments from so many of you, facing your own deep challenges, and am led less to pull back and more to move forward – in compassion, in understanding.

      Life is hard, and life without a sense of God is so so much harder. May we journey together to find a deeper understanding of all that God is and does and wants for us in this life.

      1. Kate,
        Thanks for your honest sharing and know you are not alone on this journey. I could echo your words about my own life “… will confess to a bit of trepidation about its topic. I spent years with depression, and have finally come to a point in my life where I see light and hope – so facing the rawness of Henri’s pain feels … a little scary.” But I believe that I am called to do just that this Advent.
        Ray

      2. Dear Kate,
        A simple thank you for the spirit of your introduction because it helped me look forward again to a Henri Nouwen book discussion. Your post communicated both hope and the possibility of discovering new things of faith together whilst patiently waiting for our Lord to come.
        Thank you
        Gilly

        1. Dear Kate,
          For many years I lived – was born, went to school, taught, was married and had children in New Jersey. I also was the Christian Ed person in an Episcopal Church. And my husband was an alcoholic. Yes, I went to AlAnon – probably protecting my thinking and he stopped without going for any help. After my husband died I moved to St Louis, MO to be near part of my family. I, too, am on Richard Rohr’s site as well as Henri Nouwen,’s whom I always so liked.
          Now a daughter in NJ is having much trouble emotionally after the break up of a long-term affair. She will be moving in with me in Jan. and this is an awful time for this 85 yr old gal.
          I go to a RC church which is in the Student Center in a large University, but not a parish. At the time of Vatican 2, while still working at the Episcopal Church, I became entranced with the theology, the life, and the music of that time with John 23. Of course, then it dwindled really – until I found so much in that Student Center and Richard Rohr. I have always loved to read Henri Nouwen, love his daily reflections, and now look forward to this part of my journey which I know God is guiding.
          This is hard – to be here for a daughter, encouraging her- and to keep myself open and taking care of myself…. which some days gets a bit “iffy”.
          I was so glad to read the book’s name, to see it chosen for the Advent season, and to know that it could be very right for me.

  71. Hi Everyone – I have been receiving the daily Nouwen reflections for quite some time and saw the announcement for this book discussion. I have never read this work, but have owned it for a while. I am looking forward to this exploration as an Advent activity. I am joining all of you from Maryland, not far from Washington, D.C. Peace to all – Kathy

  72. I am so excited to participate in my first book discussion! I live in Southern California and I am a wife, mother, grandmother and school administrator. Return of the Prodigal Son had a profound impact on my life several years ago. I am looking forward to renewing my commitment to spiritual growth.

  73. My name is Catherine and I am currently living in Central MA. My days come from God and I do my best to dedicate them back to him. Currently, I am transitioning to an new career in IT. My husband and I now have my parents living with us, since they need to be cared for and we decided long ago to do this for them if it was needed. (our empty nest never really stayed empty.) I work for the love of learning and contributing to something bigger than myself. We live life to love and honor the LORD. One of my dear children gave me, The Inner Voice of Love for Christmas about 4 years ago and I have not crack it until now. This is my first experience in an online book discussion. I hope to experience the peace of Christ, learning to love God more and love people with abandon. I am grateful to be here.

  74. From Gail
    Hi, I live along the Western Slope of the Colorado rocky mountains. I have been a long-time fan of Nouwen’s. I sense similarities to the pain he acknowledges and my own, when I, too, experienced an interrupted friendship within the last year. But, in my case, my friend died. I hope and pray that this Advent offering will bring about the spiritual renewal I’ve been missing.

  75. Hello to all, I read the Nouven email most days and was looking for a special thread to follow for Advent so I bought the book. I follow Richard Rohr’s meditations daily also and I rarely have a day without Thomas Merton. It was, in fact, through reading about and from Merton that I came upon Nouven and Rohr.
    I am in the early part of what I call my fourth quarter of my life, my mid seventies. I want to die having lived fully to the end….or the beginning. And I am just learning to be still and listen.

    1. Hi Mary, … I relate to so much of what you write, I look forward to this Advent with you… welcome
      Maggie

  76. Hello everyone,
    This will be my my second Nouwen book discussion. I am from the UK but living and working in Ecuador as a Franciscan Sister. I live in a relatively poor barrio of Quito and dedicate most of my time to teaching English and Maths to whoever wants to learn as well as running an elderly women’s group, leading a charismatic prayer group and bringing communion to the sick. I first read this book about 20 odd years ago when I was struggling with issues of self esteem. It was a great comfort to me. I am looking forward to being part of a community of “kindred spirits” and sharing insights
    with fellow pilgrims on the journey.

  77. Like many of you, I am retired from Ministry in the Catholic church and a grandmother enjoying one of our younger . We have 9 grandchildren, but some are now adults while others are 5 or 6 and upwards. We live in Florida where most of the grandkids were born, but now as adults live elsewhere. l Our 5 year old granddaughter who we are fortunate to care for twice a week after school, is now our only Floridian!

    Also as some of you suffer from a child’s divorce, our 5 year old is now from a broken home. Much happening with her mama (our former daughter-in-law) suffering depression and guilt. She recently phoned me and OH how I wish she were a part of this discussion because I know the particular book would help her in finding her inner peace which at last she has recognized as missing. My prayers are for her and her two children, esp my 13 yr old step-grandson.

    And I too lost a dear son 10 years ago Nov. 21 this year. I know the numbness I felt. I know the pain of his siblings and my husband. Thankfully for me at least I am healed and I believe others are as much as one can after such a loss. Our son also suffered depression, so I find Nouwen’s expressions helpful in thinking about our son.

    Mostly this Advent I hope through your sharing thoughts I will grow to understand more indepth Our Lord and walk in His light. Community is so important to me in my faith journey–so Thanks to you all in advance for what I know will help me this Advent. Blessings.

  78. Hello to everyone from warm Florida. My name is Tina Mueller and I am currently the full time caregiver for the love of my life for 36 years, my husband Tom who is on hospice with cancer. I have read Henri’s books for years but never this one as I couldn’t relate. Believe me I can now relate. The last few years have been emotionally trying with job losses, health losses, our son’s divorce and having our only grandchild move a thousand miles away. I actually found this book discussion while searching for a retreat center. My prayer is that my focus remain on Christ who gives us peace beyond all understanding and that Advent is truly a time of rebirth in the comfort of the coming of the Christ Child.

  79. I’m happy to be participating again in this beautiful group of study with the purpose of making part of our lives the discoveries and teachings of Henri Nouwen that lead us to peace, compassion, community and hospitality. My name is Martha and I´m from Guadalajara, Mexico. I hope this readings will help us grow in faith, hope and love… God bless you and thank you all for being part of this Advent journey…

  80. Hello all.
    This is my first book discussion also. My husband and I were introduced to Nouwen in 1970 and over the years have read most of his books. I consider him one of my spiritual mentors.
    We divide our time between California and Minnesota, with grandkids in both places. I look forward to the discussion with great anticipation. Don’t have great expectations, but have a sense that this will be a good thing at this time in my life.

  81. I am returning for my 3rd advent book discussion. I really enjoy having this as part of my advent devotions. I live in Colorado and work from home as an IT project manager. I’m involved in teaching a women’s small group and working on learning more about sustainability issues with a focus on social justice and the environment.

  82. I too am taking part for the first time having recently discovered the writings of Henri Nouwen. As did Henri, I am feeling lost and abandoned by God at the present time. I am looking forward to reading the comments from the other participants on this journey.

  83. Hello from Chicago. I’ve read one or two Nouwen books in the past, but this is my first journey through The Inner Voice of Love. Looking forward to thinking about love with the group this Advent season.

  84. I was reading Henri’s email reflection today and noticed that the book discussion started today and I already have the book! That is definitely a sign. I have been feeling a bit lost and losing my confidence recently – both with God and myself. It’s been a difficult couple of years. I live in Ireland and I am hopeful that this will be a blessed time for me as I join with others in the book discussions. Thank you for the opportunity.

  85. I am a first time book discussion participant. I live in central Iowa. I receive Nouwen’s daily meditations every day in my email but have not read this book. I have Multiple Sclerosis so each day brings many surprises, some lovely and some not so much. I dedicate my energy to getting through each day as I look to the Lord for guidance, courage, and hope. I’m looking forward to reading Nouwen’s journal entries during a particularly hard time in his life and how he was able to turn from his sorrow to peace. Nouwen’s wisdom will help me navigate the challenges I experience each day.

  86. Grace and Peace to All,

    I am Stuart Dimock and I live in Southern California. I came to Henri Nouwen through “Life of the Beloved”. I am seeking to make my belovedness the central tenet of my life. I have not read “The Inner Voice of Love” and I am so looking forward to this advent study.

  87. Hello=

    I spend my days working with nonprofits and help them build capacity. Looking for the “inner peace” that the title hints at.

  88. Hello all. My name is Kent Faver – and this is my first Nouwen book discussion. I will be meeting with about 6 others at my local church on Wednesday evenings during Advent to participate in discussion and reflection on the book and comments here. Thanks!

  89. Hello from Northwest Montana,
    I found a copy of the book on my bookshelf and feel blessed to spend Advent journey with this book discussion.
    At age 70 I became a grandmother for the first time and now my days are filled with the miraculous ministry of witnessing the awesome miracles of his developing self. Already he is 20 months old. I am so grateful to have the energy to spend 3 days a week with him in my own home. He is my teacher about God’s love and guidance ..all I have to do is trust as my grandson does when he holds my hand…
    May God open our hearts to hear what we each most need.
    Pace e Bene

  90. Hi everybody. A found out about this book discussion through a friend. I live near Edmonton, Alberta and work full time for a church. I am grateful for the opportunity to be part of this discussion. I downloaded the book and read the Introduction and I found myself identifying with much of what he was describing. “It was as if the house I finally found had no floors.” I appreciate Nouwen’s writing, it’s honest in a way I find hard to express myself.

  91. I live near Nashville, Tennessee and just ordered my copy of The Inner Voice. This is my second time to participate in a book discussion and am looking forward to it. I am walking through a season of depression and hard circumstances right now and really desire to have God become more believable and real in my life. I hope to find hope and healing as we take this journey together! It’s only His light that can dispel the darkness.

    1. Rebecca,
      Thanks for joining us and your open and honest introduction. Know that you are among a caring community. I will keep you in my prayers during our shared Advent journey.
      As St. Francis said to those he met, “May the Lord give you peace.”
      Ray

  92. Hello to all from rural west Georgia! I am a transplanted Yankee hving gornw up in Connecticut. Guess after 30+ years the transplantation may have taken root somewhat. I am an Episcopalian and sing in the choir as well as serve as lay eucharistic minister. I seek to foster and share a richer, informed understanding of the 3 monotheistic religions (Christianity, Islam, Judaism) so we collectively see the points of convergence rather than divergence. Distrust, disdain, and suspicion of ‘Other’ is a destructive force all too prevalent in our world today. This is my first foray into an online book discussion, though I comment fairly actively on other blogs. “The Inner Voice of Love” is one of two or three books that are always at hand. Nouwen’s writings have fostered in me emergent action and consideration borne by love – especially in its imperfection – for years now.

    1. Marcy,

      I too am so interested in the roots of the three Abrahamic faiths – and what they share. I am such an interfaith person and love to see the Love of God which all share. We all need that now in our lives. One of my favorite little current books is God of Love by Mirabai Starr……. about those things in common with the three faiths.

  93. Have been waiting for this reading/discussion. I have the book and am ready to start reading. Thank you for this opportunity

  94. From Brenda
    Hello everyone! God Bless you! I have read many of Henri Nouwen’s books but not this one. I also get the daily meditations everyday in my email and treasure the insights and daily comments every day. I am looking forward to this discussion as I have hit a particularly low point in my life too. When I read what this book was about I said to myself “How appropriate for me right now. The Holy Spirit knows what I need every minute of the day!” So God Bless everyone who is about to take this journey and God Bless Henri Nouwen for providing it through his book

  95. I first read this book 10 years ago when a relative gifted it to me after my mother died. It was profoundly helpful as I grieved and journeyed with Henri and Jesus through that time.

    I am tucked up by the fire in Scotland, where it is evening, and cold and windy outside. What am I hoping for out of this shared experience this Advent? I think to purposefully draw closer to Jesus in deeper quietness; I need refreshment. Also, there is so much pain and anguish in the world today, perhaps more than in a very long time, and I wish to find a way of holding that and relinquishing it, for myself and thus for those I pray for.

  96. Hello to all!

    I am looking forward to beginning this new experience of sharing about the book , The Inner Voice of Love, and posting comments on the blog. I am a Sister of St., Joseph from Chestnut Hill, Phila., PA. I teach Math at Chestnut Hill College which has been a passion for me for many years.. I read the daily Henri Nouwen excerpts that are sent each day to my email. I like them very much. When I noticed the note about the book discussion for ADVENT and the title and reason for Henri’s writing the book, my interest and desire to be part of this experience intensified. I haven’t read the book but I have paged through it since it came in the mail after my ordering it! As the Advent season unwinds and my reading moves along, I am anxious to share about the reflections that will be part of my Advent days. Thank you for this opportunity to share in this discussion and reflection time!

    Gratefully,
    S. Eileen

  97. Greetings! I live in Nebraska near Lincoln. A good portion of my time each day is spent helping nonprofit organizations and ministries with strategic management, marketing, and career development. I also recently entered into a season of much time in listening prayer, as God prepares me to serve a new congregation of His disciples here in Lincoln.

    A dear friend, brother, and mentor of mine introduced me to Henri Nouwen’s writings at a time when I struggled most to receive God’s love, both directly and indirectly from others. I first read “The Way of the Heart,” and now, “The Inner Voice of Love” found me just in time for this study.

    I am trying to be careful with my expectations around the Advent discussion. Other than being open to whatever God and others bring to this experience, my desire is to practice deep listening to God and the persons in front of me (online or offline).

    Blessings,

    Matt Alberti

  98. Hello everyone. I am a 63 yr old grandmother and have 1 grandson. I am a semi-retired R.N. and work and live in southern Ontario, Canada. I am a cradle Catholic and am looking to deepen my relationship with the blessed Trinity and Mary. I was like the prodigal son in that I wandered away from my Catholic faith for about 25 yrs. It was not pleasant but that is what I thought I wanted, no God and no one but myself to answer to. Boy was I wrong! Anyway, I came back to my faith and am so glad God and the brethren have welcomed me back with open arms, so to speak. I look forward to this discussion and the blessing that it will be to everyone who participates. God Bless everyone and lets enjoy this journey together!

  99. I live in a suburb of Toronto, Ontario Canada with my husband of almost 35 years. I work fulltime in the not for profit field and am also a volunteer youth and young adult worker at my church where my husband is Youth and CommunityOutreach Pastor.
    I have not read this book before, actually this is the first Henri Nouwen book I have read and I look forward to it and sharing in this online discussion. Henri Nowen’s writing has been recommended to me by a friend and I am excited to finally get the opportunity to read and share in a discussion with everyone. I am looking forward to slowing down the busyness and taking in the message God has to us through the words Henri shares with us.

  100. My name is Linda. I live in Seattle. I have a bit of open space for once in my life to do some of the things I have always wanted to do. Time for me and time for my 5 grandchildren. I have not read the book before but am very familiar with Henri’s writings. I was a member of a Theatre group in Ontario and we had the privilege of spending time with Henri and he actually came to see some of our productions. I am in a challenging time right now and hope to hear more from God through His people as I walk through this Advent. Last year was a difficult Advent so I am looking forward to spending time with all of you.

  101. This is my first time participating in this type of book discussion. I am new to Henri Nouwen, receiving daily devotionals for the past few months. I will be reading the book and looking forward to celebrating Advent in this way. I feel expectant and hopeful to experience the Christmas season in a fresh way. It’s comforting to be part of a greater community. Blessings to all on this journey and to the people who will be touched through our experience.

  102. This is the first time I’ve participated in a Henri Nouwen book discussion or read this book. I live in San Diego, California and spend my work life as a clinical social worker in the field of mental health. As a follower of Christ, advent practices help me to focus on the gifts of His presence. I look forward to continuing a transformational journey as a member of this discussion and sharing Henri’s journey through a darkness and into the light of Christ’s love.

  103. I live in the Midwest, USA. I have read many of Henri’s books, and his writings always speak directly to me! My husband and myself have been in great pain the last several years as our adult son has gone through a divorce, leaving a son and a step-daughter. While I see many good things happening (returning on not so regular Sunday Mass and jumping in and really helping his ex-wife with both children), it is very painful to watch children go through a divorce. So my prayer, as always, is peace and especially trusting the Lord that He will lead us through this journey ultimately to Him. God bless and looking forward to this spiritual adventure.

  104. I’m in Laurel, MD. I found out about the group through my church and I know Ray.
    By day I’m a humble receptionist as I’ve recently re-entered the work force, and in my spare time I volunteer with my church choir and Adult Faith Formation program.

    I’ve never read any of Nouwen’s books, but this title appealed to me because I’m trying to heal in my own life right now. My marriage just ended as a result of my husband’s repeated infidelity, I just lost my pet a week ago, I am losing my home…so I think a study of this particular work might be a good way to bring hope & peace back into my life.

  105. It has been a while since I was able to participate in a book discussion with Henri’s facilitators.
    I read this wonderful book from time to time but am in Sri Lanka till the 27th and will have my dogged -eared copy when when I return to Canada . I live in Coldwater Ontario Canada but just came briefly to travel with my daughter and 2 tiny granddaughters as they have returned to their Papa and home in beautiful Sri Lanka.
    I was privileged to hear Henri speak 35 years ago and he truly touched my heart and soul.His writings have always been at pivotal points in my life ever since. I just know it will be so supportive to journey on this site together.
    Shalom and Joy to each of you

    1. Welcome back. Safe journey on your return home to Canada. May the Lord bless you and your family.
      Ray

  106. I live in Charlottesville, Virginia and was introduced to Henri Nouwen’s writings when my young adult son was killed in a car accident in February, 2014. He had just turned 28 and was a gifted therapist working with young boys with autism. He was working miracles in their lives. He was the light of my life. On my continuing journey through grief, Henri Nouwen’s writings have brought me great comfort. I have not read this book and look forward to finding more peace, comfort, strength, and spiritual direction in this book, and from the other people who are joining in this discussion, as we enter the Advent season.

    1. Welcome Liz and may this book touch your heart as you continue your journey.
      May the Lord give you peace.
      Ray

  107. My English is not so well, but I will try.
    I’m a poor Clair from the Netherlands, Nijmegen. The city where Henri Nouwen studied. Every day I will start my day with Lectio Divina, the last years with books of Henri. More and more he brings me a lot. I will read the book The Inner Voice of Love in Dutch and it’s a good practice to me to reflect in English and to feel connected with people all over the world who be touched bij Henri. He brings God alive in us. I’m looking forward to read the book The Inner Voice of Love together.

    1. Welcome and your English is wonderful. We look forward to you joining us and your insights.
      Ray

  108. It’s great to be back and participate in my third book discussion all of which have enhanced my journey of faith and recent training at nearly 70
    I live in Northamptonshire in the UK and was recently licensed as a lay minister in the Church of England after 3 years training. Some of my lay minister colleagues hope to join us. I work in a small church .We are seeking to be a Christian community at the heart of the village.
    I have not read this book before but truly appreciate Henri’s capacity to communicate God’s love and support our struggles through the ups and downs of our lives. He is a real draw towards the light of Gid’s love shining in the darkness. I am really looking forward to listening and learning from all who participate .
    Best Wishes and prayers
    Gilly

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